Suppose you only had one date with a girl and there is nothing serious between you two yet. When she tells you that one of her relatives had a serious accident and she is having a crazy time, how do you respond to that? Do you try to help her get over it with all your effort or do you just play it cool, let her know that you are there for her if she needs anything and you hope that the relative gets better soon.

I'm not an insensitive or uncaring person but I don't want to be the shoulder where she cries on this early like her best friend so I am searching for the best way to handle this.