well, you certainly made some mistakes... if not doing anything is considered a mistake. i also noticed one shit test when she told you to fix her door. you should make a deal, not just come and fix it. she gave you a hoop, and you jumped through it.
also, you are right about friend zone... jeez man, being interested in a girl for that long and not escalate... there are certain ways for escaping from friend zone but my advice is to go on... the sea is full of fish and it's ridiculous to bother with that one... just don't leave it like it never happened. learn from this situation and be aware in future that you will loose a girl if you don't escalate in time...
i think it's much better this way. cause you will have something that you will always remember if you hesitate to escalate again. it will simply scream in your head - YOU WILL LOOSE HER!!! and if you try, you will have to try real hard and loose hell lot of your time you won't get the message. and next time when you hesitate to escalate nothing will scream in your head because you will know that you should recover from friend zone...
but you asked and i'll answer you. there are a few ways to escape from friend zone... one is to cut all comunication with her for about month or two, and to change. to change a lot... to be more successful more elegant, to glow, you need to be a new man... and then you start all over... the other thing is to act to her as a friend. yes, as a friend. to talk to her about your problems with another girls, to tell her a funny story that happened you on work, cause that's what friends does. and girls immediately start behaving different when you try to be friend to her. they are wired creatures who want what they don't have...
the second thing would be more effective if she told you ljbf. but you can try it anyway...
so my recommendations are (in this order):
1. go on, but don't forget this
2. do the first advice to escape from friend zone
3. do the second advice to escape from friend zone
it's your life, you decide
