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Author:  PedroFSGS [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 4:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Did I just got friend-zoned?

So, I have been texting this HB8 I met on facebook...
We've been talking, about a lot of stuff...
The otther day I said that I doubt that she would go to school the next day, because she had to wake up at 7am and it was already 2am.. she told me she would go.. the next day, at 8 am she sent me a text saying that she did get up and that was on her way to school... later that day, she sent me a text saying that she had a law exam that went terribly and she was going to fail it for sure.. my question is: does this mean i got friend-zoned? and what can i do so she sees that im not interested in her as a friend, without being to upfront?

thanks in advance for the help

Author:  Junglepimp [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 7:06 pm ]
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Take the conversation to a sexual level. Although you shoulda done that a little earlier I guess. It seems to me you're good at making convos, just don't be a nice guy or have conversations with women which are too general in nature.

Author:  Grand Master [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 8:16 pm ]
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Use the internet and phone to set up a meeting only. Even though it's possible to build attraction online but it's very difficult. Its a slow process and definitely not worth the time and trouble. I don't think you have been friend zoned yet but you are very close. So get her to meet you in person. And remember to keep escalating fearlessly. If you are good enough to get one girl from Facebook to meet you in person then you are good enough to get more of them if this one doesn't go perfectly well.

Author:  Junglepimp [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 8:18 pm ]
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^ Wut he said. You need to escalate at the right time.

Author:  RemyTheRed [ Fri Nov 12, 2010 8:34 am ]
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I 3rd that (sexually escalate).
iF YOU don't want to be upfront and risk a yes or no and don't want to be a bitch by dropping passive hints. so make strong jokes about your gonna hook up in the future.(sinn relationship latter). It's probably the exact prescription here.

A simple overview if you don't know.

1st step "you and I mesh well so much so that.." little scenario that you and her can do together.
2nd step "honest complement on personality" and I am just hitting on you but I'm serious
3rd step repeat step 2 and replace hitting on you, with hooking up with you.

Basically step 1 through 3 is gone gradually and makes it clear where the both of you are heading without putting you in a yes or no, ultimatum type situation. Since it's a joke you say it with the appropriate tone and laugh, etc. I think appropriate kino complements this perfect. The cool part is you can't be LBJF'ed because this is direct. But this is a "strike whole the irons hot" type of thing don't be that guy who always joking but never acts, as it will become how she knows you.

Just a small easy way too get where you want w/o risking all the marbles or any other dumb way to make an Statement of intent SOI.

I'm also interested to know where you picked up your facebook game. I've been wanting to try online sarging, but haven't really invested to much because I'm in front of a computer most of the day, I like my sarging to be tangible, but humor me.

Author:  PedroFSGS [ Fri Nov 12, 2010 8:48 pm ]
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i actually got it here: how-to-sarge-facebook-vt19912.html

the thing is... when we talk, conversation flows, but i dont know how to sexually escalate with this girl.. i have done it with other girls, but i cant do it with her... dont ever have a chance...

im afraid i just got friend zoned, cause the other day we were talking and i asked if she was going out... she said she wouldnt, and then said that she's on hibernation during winter, and she doesnt stop on the summer... so i said that i could see that she was not a dolphin but a bear (i said this, because one day a guy sent her a facebook message saying she looked like a sweet dolphin, so i've been making fun of her about it since then).. then she replied to me that turtles hibernate too, and that she has one turtle.. then i said that i had one, that died and bla bla bla...

so... i guess im in the friend zone right?

how can i sexually escalate with her?

thanks

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