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Author:  Sappa [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 4:58 am ]
Post subject:  Stuck on an opinion opener

Hey everyone,
So me and my wingman hit up the clubs yesterday and we wanted to try some opinion openers, I suck with these types of openers so i thought i could try and get some practice in. Well anyways we used our outfits as the opinion... I would approach two girls at a time with my wing and open with. “Hey, Me and my friend here are having a outfit competition, who do you think has the better outfit?” my wing was wearing a black dress shirt with a equalizer shirt (sound activated light up shirt) under that. And i was wearing a light dress shirt with a plain white shirt under that. So usually they would pick his shirt, “because its cool.” So i would say something like “but isn’t it nerdy.” Just to try and keep the convo going but i could never escalate it to another topic, or proceed with the opinion, I was stuck in the opener part.
So my question is, how would i escalate the conversation after asking them that type of opinion?

Author:  Twistn [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 5:05 am ]
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* Ask them what they think would look good on you. I've tried this once before and it worked well, because the girls disagreed on what would suit. You can feed off their inner competition to be 'right'.

* Turn the tables on them, have you and your wingman commentate on their attire and which looks better. (Obviously negging the target). In this process, slow down your voices, lean back with your wingman as though you're actually analysing the girls. Make 'em be on edge, waiting for an answer.

If both of the above are used playfully, you can add on kino.

Author:  Antric [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 5:08 pm ]
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Twistn

Has some good points there. is what i would say to you is the following

time constraint

and try i more simple openor that i started with

"Hey, me and my friends over there are having a dicussion, i cant stay for long because i have to get back to my friends.but we would like to know who do you think lie more men or women"

i have had great responses from that

also i have a rule of thumb that i allways approach alone it shows more cofindents and less of a threat

Hope this helps
Antric

Author:  smooth99 [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 8:39 pm ]
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antric is right , always approach on your own.

it makes you more confident nad if theres 2 or a group of you approaching they may feel intimidated.

your wing should be used so you can isolate your target.

Author:  Sappa [ Wed Oct 27, 2010 4:40 pm ]
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Thx for the tips. That was my first time ever using a wing anyway. I was wondering why i got more progress by myself.
I was thinking about getting a equalizer shirt for myself. do u think that would be a good shirt for peacocking :?:

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Oct 28, 2010 4:06 pm ]
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Get an EQ shirt if it's congruent with your personality, not to make people like you.

Above poster was correct, the way to use a wing is to open girls solo, then he comes over a few minutes later and you're like "oh hey this is my friend ___" and you introduce. This means you can get their names, and then he distracts the obstacle(s) whilst you continue and then isolate the target. If you don't have their names yet you can introduce them as tweedle dum and tweedle dee / Busty LaRue and Tits McGee / blondie and freckles, etc. whatever you find amusing.


As for transitioning, first of all it's better to ask opinion openers that are open ended, i.e. what they think of something and/or why, not just something where they can give a one word answer i.e. yes/no or you/him. Out of a fashion opener, you can tell them they are dressed a certain way and cold read out of that into something it tells you about them, tell a DHV story about the last time you went shopping when something funny happened, ask them their take on a fashion trend you've been noticing recently (e.g. 80s retro, skinny jeans on men), OR just start a completely new conversational thread. Remember, it doesn't have to follow logically as long as they're having FUN.

Author:  Sappa [ Thu Oct 28, 2010 5:03 pm ]
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Woaw! Thx for the Help bro.

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