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| Author: | WiseAdventure [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 11:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Women can be too impressed ? |
Hi guys, My job and studies made me travel in many countries, I can speak 6 languages, I'm a good salsa dancer, I play guitar and my job is considered as quite cool. When I have a date with a girl I really try to avoid to talk about my past and my activities but it's quite hard because this is my life finaly. I think that I've lost many opportunities with hot women conveying too much high value stories and experiences. I didn't think it was even possible. Every time womem ask me what I've done and what I'm doing, I feel unconfortable. Now I think that I will start to lie and not tell the truth about what I've done... I don't know if this situation has happened to someone... It might seem strange to complain for this reason but I have been almost 2 months without any result and I'm really thinking about that. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 1:12 pm ] |
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Don't feel ashamed about your accomplishments. Be comfortable with them and proud of yourself. The secret is to throw out little bits of DHVs here and there without seeming to brag, and always underpromise and overdeliver. For example the guy who says "hey lets goto this club where I know the manager and then we can have an afterparty at my mansion" sounds like a tool. If you say "let's goto this fun club I really like and swing by an afterparty" and it TURNS OUT you know the manager and she SEES FOR HERSELF you live in a mansion, then you raise your value in her eyes because you were humble about it and didn't have to feel like you were going around bragging. Secondly, when you tell stories about your life and achievements, instead of just saying you did this, then did that, tell the story as if ANYONE who had been in your position would have done the same thing. Ground the story in normal everyday things that she will relate to, and then make the achievements be because of simple perseverance, hard work or just plain good luck, rather than because you're naturally just fucking amazing at everything, which tends to alienate people. For example, if she asks what you do, instead of saying "I'm a Nobel Prize winning author." Say "well ever since I was little I loved writing - I would write a journal every day, and little short stories about a fantasy world I made up, which seem kind of silly now, and after university I wanted to make a go of it full time despite the fact that everyone told me I could never earn a living writing, and luckily I've written enough that one or two of my books have been quite successful!" Finally, once you get the attraction, don't OVERGAME by continuing to hit DHVs. MOVE ON and get to qualification. It's here and comfort where you can compliment her about those aspects of her personality that you find attractive. If you're coming from a position of almost too high value, this helps her to feel like you actually appreciate her and she's not just one of the numerous girls you could easily have. |
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