that sounded kinda weak.... even if you were trying to bring her down a notch... you layed the same point on tooo thick.
kinda sounds like you ARE intimidated by her?
what are you worried about actually? that she wont show or that you arent good enough for her and you're not realyl doing what you should to prevent the flake?
truly?
"you pursued me" i like that.. she knows whats up.. as opposed to playing a game like "oh i thought we were just gonna be friends" which woulda been shittier to deal with....
i think your message even tho intended the opposite made you show too much interest and I think she can tell you dont fully back that up. maybe she gets the idea from your first meeting.
whats the date? a movie? (ew)
do a bar... grab a pint... bars are loud and distracting its calming to the chaotic mind.. silence in a restaurant breeds mad thinking.. even a noisy coffee shop .
as for what to text her next... well u ned to kinda recover from that if shes still interested and she didnt just say "well then whatever... forget it" it was more "well then wahtever.. you figure it out dude"
so text her back something direct, confident and reassuring like.
"makes sense. nice.. you just got a point, whether you want it or not
anyway, sounds good. I'll see ya soon. regardless you're starting to sound like you might be a pretty cool friend"yes ... say FRIEND.
she already has this idea that you are pursuing her.. cut that off and make her try and earn that again... "what.. friend? he just wants to be my friend?" which is starting to back up your original message...
if she still flakes.. you need to work on your approach and/or text game to limit that shit.
and your text STYLE and also your approach need to match the image you are trying to portray in the actual content.
ie.
saying "ill fuk you up man!!!" all stuttering like and timid.. isnt gonna scare anyone u know.... doesnt match..
good luck
see ya soon"