Quote: Listen to her body language...actions speak louder than words. Dont keep asking either, it comes across as desperate/needy.
If she wont tell you, she obv is into you somewhat.
Yeah, that's what I thought, she would have just said no if she wasn't into me..
But at the same time, maybe she just doesn't want to ruin the friendship.
I want to have a real conversation about it to her, but if I keep bringing it up, I'll come off as clingy, or needy, like you said.
And she doesn't want to really talk about it anyways, which is what bothers me the most, she's acting like a kid, but maybe she's just shy..
I thought If I was to just ask her, she would of just been like "No, we're just friends" .. But I can't even get that out of her.
I rather a no, than an "I'm not telling you", that just means more waiting around.
And sometimes she does different things that makes me thinks she is into me, but I'm not sure if I'm just taking it too seriously..
Like if I'm sitting next to her, our arms might push up against each others or something, and she doesn't move or anything..
Or last night, when our families we're having dinner at a restaurant, she made me move my seat close to hers, because she was "Cold" .. I think she was really cold though ;p
Her dad has approached me twice, and asked me to not hurt his daughter, and I always tell him I won't, and he asked me if I liked her before, and I said no.
She told me, that her dad believes we would make a good couple..
So night before last in the car when I told her that her dad keeps approaching me, she said not to worry about it, then I asked her if her dad really thinks we'd make a good couple, she was like I dunno..
Then when we got home, before we got out the car, I just said "But you don't like me that way, right?"
She kind of paused, and was like "Not really.. " But she said it in like, a lying voice (You know the voice some one puts on, when they've been caught, or something like that.. You get my drift )
So then I said, just say yes or no, and laughed..
She said she isn't answering it, I asked her why, and she just said she isn't.
I explained that in my first post, but I just put it more detailed right there...
My guesses are;
1. She's afraid to tell me, whether it be yes or no, because it could ruin our friendship.
2. She doesn't want to hurt me, but I know her, and she would of just came out and said No, because saying she doesn't want to tell me, just makes it worse, because I kind of take it as a yes, so she probably does feel something towards me..
3. She is just shy, and I could probably approach the situation better, but at this point I don't want to bring it up again, because she may get angry with me.
4. She is trying to just keep me hanging, so she can use me if she wants, without me ever knowing whether or not she likes me.
Now I could go direct with her, and just like grab her hand while we're walking or sitting together, and see if she pulls away, or just like leaves it there or whatever.
See, but there's two possibilities.
A. She likes me, and everything goes well, after I try what I said above.
B. She doesn't like me, and now she knows for sure I like her, and gets mad that I tried to make a move on her, then I ruin the friendship..
Or I could just wait it out, and see if she takes the lead, and tells me how she feels, but she isn't that type of person, I can't see her doing that.
I can't keep on asking her though, or she'll get pissed, and see me as some needy guy, and I feel like if she does actually like me, then I'm making her NOT like me by keep asking about it..
People, just let me know if you think she has feelings, or not?
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