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| Author: | MiMs277 [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 7:59 am ] |
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I went on an event with some friends and got 3 numbers, all of the girls were nice and I got numbers, here's how all the conversations went Me Either your a facebook addict, or your very bored 11:37pmRachel Laura ? 11:38pmMe What did u do 2day? 11:39pmRachel Laura woke up at 3 n chilled w a friend u 11:41pmMe About the same woke up at 1 Gym got a new phone ... and set up a date with a girl 11:43pmRachel Laura funn 11:43pmMe why yes very. I actually have to get people for another all nighter but these ppl are more chill like u can bring weed and they wudnt even care are u interested in coming? 11:45pmRachel Laura nah im good lol 11:45pmMe i have to get 10 ppl for this guy llol 11:45pmRachel Laura ? 11:46pmMe im trying to get 10 people to sign up, the guy isnt so wealthy if u no wat i mean 11:49pmRachel Laura nott rlly? 11:50pmMe nevermind 11:57pmMe anyway are u going anywhere during the break? Today 12:09amRachel Laura probly yup 12:20amMe wat do u hav in mind? 12:26amRachel Laura chill w friends 12:29amMe i dont think i ever met one girl that didnt say that 2nd girl: 42pmMe hello brianna how was ur day? 11:43pmBrianna it was good...urs? 11:44pmMe it could have been better i went on a date with a girl that was a lil... bleh 11:44pmBrianna lol sorry 11:45pmMe its fine u have a pretty profile pic do u model? 11:45pmBrianna haha thnx..but no i dontt 11:45pmMe oh i thought u wer a porn model or something 11:47pmBrianna ya im sure u did 11:48pmMe haha did u make a pornstar name? 11:48pmBrianna o yeahh. my name is cinnamon sparkle 11:48pmMe lemme go google that... http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=w ... 4Q&cad=rja 11:49pmBrianna yep. thats me. im a belt 11:49pmMe How convienient... I can use one of those... 11:50pmBrianna hahaha they sell me at any local convenient store 11:50pmMe amazing even 7-11? 11:50pmBrianna hmm im not sure. i think in some 11:51pmMe i think I've seen u come free with slurpees 11:51pmBrianna haha yeah that sounds about right 11:51pmMe wow your super convenient 11:51pmBrianna yes i am 11:52pmMe haha what are u up to 2mm? 11:52pmBrianna hanging out w sum friends. u? 11:53pmMe need to do some errands and i need someone to accompany me and seeing how convenient you are i thought u wud be more than fit 11:54pmBrianna haha sorry cannttt 11:54pmMe really? i thought u had the capabilities to be two placees at once? 11:54pmBrianna haha guess nott 11:55pmMe its fine, some other time i have to run them every other day anyway 11:57pmBrianna haha ok Help... I don't know what to say to any girl after openers!!!!!! |
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| Author: | kilativ15 [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 4:27 pm ] |
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Im sorry, but reading that was just painful. Were you trying to DHV? Whats that shit about you getting another girl on a date? Shel be thinking ''why the fuck is he talking to me''. Your bragging aswell, big man having house parties, and smoking free weed and whatnot. Man Im sorry but that wasnt great.... Never mention drugs when talking to girls, even smoking in verbal commute is bad, be more subtle with your brags. DHV's in general are told to other people in sets, otherwise shel think youre bragging directly. Learn and study more, then continue man, cheers |
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| Author: | kilativ15 [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 4:30 pm ] |
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I didnt like your negging either, it wasnt playful enough and was too patronizing. |
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| Author: | MiMs277 [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 6:39 pm ] |
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So what would have been a good way to brag in that context? |
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| Author: | EyeAmShampoo [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 7:50 pm ] |
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Kilativ is right. It was pretty painful. But that's how you learn. First thing to keep in mind Is NOT to talk so much. if you need something to say Refer to the night you met her And things you remember that you can compliment her with. But fishing for convo means you are chasing. You have to mirror the girl's spirit. if she gives one word responses, you do it to. But then the goal is to get her to type more and speak freely. When she does, you won. Also, when a girl responds saying "You?" Do NOT talk about yourself. Be vague but use one word to suggest a topic that she is familiar with. You are setting her up, to open up and type a lot more. Seduction is NOT about you Its about the woman. Keep it that way. Be Brave |
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| Author: | MiMs277 [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:38 pm ] |
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I think I was pretty brave when I put this up, but when we met it was so awkward I just tried talking and even if I got the number they were so dry. |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Tue Sep 07, 2010 10:11 pm ] |
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As the other guys said, less fluffing. Try to keep it short and sweet. The most painful part for me was this: Quote: 11:43pmMe
Saying you have to get people on someone else's behalf isn't very - and i hate this word - alpha. As well as seeming a bit 'desperate' to get her to come you're also saying that you have to try and get people to come for someone else.why yes very. I actually have to get people for another all nighter but these ppl are more chill like u can bring weed and they wudnt even care are u interested in coming? 11:45pmRachel Laura nah im good lol 11:45pmMe i have to get 10 ppl for this guy llol 11:45pmRachel Laura ? 11:46pmMe im trying to get 10 people to sign up, the guy isnt so wealthy if u no wat i mean 11:49pmRachel Laura nott rlly? 11:50pmMe nevermind In my opinion a better conversation could have gone something like this, with reference to what EyeAmShampoo said about refering to the night you met. You: Hey Her: Hey You: How was your hangover after the other night haha (for example, I usually get a good response from this) - Her: Response (usually something like "omg it was so bad how was yours? blah blah" either way the response doesn't matter much) Now from here you can generally get straight to the point. Obviously you could pan it out a little longer but this is what I personally like to do. You: Anyway I can't chat long 'cause I'm going to bed in a minute (hence you were talking at night. If talking in day then just say you got stuff to do). Fancy coming to a house party next week? (or whenever it is.) Then whatever response you get here gives you the answer Yes or No allot quicker without any banter that's unnecessary to the point of you talking to her. If she says Yes then great. If she says no then you just say something like "No problem. I gotta go now anyway so goodnight and we'll hang out soon." Or instead of "we'll hang out soon" something like "stay out of trouble you" Footnote, as mentioned, no drug talk. Even if they do smoke some pot. |
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| Author: | MiMs277 [ Wed Sep 08, 2010 12:42 am ] |
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I'm kicking myself when I'm reading references to my conversation, but eh I got to learn right? Thanks man |
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