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Author:  pwnstar [ Thu Sep 02, 2010 9:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Restarting the Game: Attracting a Girl From Your Past
How do you guys re-initiate contact with an HB10 who you haven't talked to in 3-4 years? I really want to explore my back catalog and regain my lost opportunities. I was not exposed to the PUA community when I was friendly with her and my natural game only got me as far as a prom date. After this, we seemed to drift apart. We are friends on facebook.

I have tried sarging a bit, but these new chicks just don't seem to stack up to my old babes. =(

How can I restart the game and introduce myself as a new person?

...I'm not even sure if this is a mid-game or a whole new one.
Author:  SpeXXX [ Thu Sep 02, 2010 9:45 pm ]
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I wouldn't re-initiate the contact with her on facebook. Only if I bump into her someday on the street or something like that.
Other than that, just move on with your life. You don't really need her, there are other 10's.
Author:  Horsepower [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 4:09 am ]
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Why not just start up a conversation over Facebook? Since you already know her I don't see why that isn't an option, say you two should meet up to catch up. Maybe some LJBF recovery material might help here since a lot of that is break off contact and come back a new person, which is what you've done.

I don't understand all these "just move on" posts. I say you should pursue whatever you want until she either accepts or slams the door on you.
Author:  SpeXXX [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:24 am ]
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Why not just start up a conversation over Facebook? Since you already know her I don't see why that isn't an option, say you two should meet up to catch up. Maybe some LJBF recovery material might help here since a lot of that is break off contact and come back a new person, which is what you've done.

I don't understand all these "just move on" posts. I say you should pursue whatever you want until she either accepts or slams the door on you.
I just hate facebook and all this crap, and I don't see why to dig for old skeletons from the past, it's much easier to start a new relationship than fixing one.
I wrote this from my own perspective and how I would act in this situation, I think it all comes down to what you want and what is your goal.
Author:  MastaShake [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 7:59 pm ]
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I agree with SpeXXX. Just hope to meet up with her sometime. Messaging on Facebook looks needy. I've done it, and regretted it. If you still live near her, keep an eye on her status. Maybe she'll post something like "heading to X tonight", then just be sure you and a friend show up there "randomly" and strike up a convo. Then she can see your new techniques in action. They work a lot better in person.
Author:  sidney [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 10:33 pm ]
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id message her on facebook and try to arrange to get together.

what do you have to lose?
Author:  Sbreezy [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 11:17 pm ]
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wow lots of diff views, here is my two cents. on facebook i used to have a horrible time but that is cuz i didnt update my game, i was still doing the afc mindset on fb. DO NOT POKE HER OR START PRESSING LIKE ON HER POSTS. and the trick is to just send her a slick message that two parted using push and pull. like saying hey wats up is kinda weak im guessing that why everybody is saying they hate facebook. and when she replies dont just jump on lets hang or go out, make her the one asking you.
Author:  Mr. D [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 3:48 am ]
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I agree with SpeXXX. Just hope to meet up with her sometime. Messaging on Facebook looks needy. I've done it, and regretted it. If you still live near her, keep an eye on her status. Maybe she'll post something like "heading to X tonight", then just be sure you and a friend show up there "randomly" and strike up a convo. Then she can see your new techniques in action. They work a lot better in person.
I completely agree. Internet dating and meeting up with people over the internet is low value. This is sub-communicating to her that you actually meet people over the internet whilst she, a HB10, will usually meet guys live and in clubs. Meet up with her "randomly" at a place you know she is going to be. Is this stalkerish? I wouldn't say so because you aren't following her around, you're looking for a prime opportunity to reconnect, and it's a much better start than over the internet.
Author:  pwnstar [ Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:19 pm ]
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Thanks for the help guys. Though there were differing opinions, I have to push forward and continue pursuing this girl.

I'm glad you guys advised me against the facebook poking...I was getting really tempted to do that lol. Keeping an eye on her status to know where to meet her is an excellent idea, but she doesn't post statuses like that. I guess I just have to watch closely until I know where she is. Using this technique I will definitely run into her within a few months. =)

I've looked into LJBF recovery material and I can't find any. Could you please link me?

Although I really have no idea what to say, I don't mind sending her a private message even though its a bit AFC and needy. But I'm afraid that this may kill my game.
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