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| Author: | Smoother777 [ Thu Aug 19, 2010 4:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | New. Advice welcomed |
So I made my first approach today at a mall. It was a 2 set with a 8 and a 7.5. I opened with a 2 part kiss opener that I read about from 'Style'. The adrenaline I got from approaching is insane! After I finished the opener, and they had given their opinions, I didn't know how to transition into further conversation. The 8 (5' 5 blonde in shape with pretty face) was interested but I didn't know what the hell to say! Anyways, is there a way to comfortably transition from one starting topic to the next? or do you just have to force more material out? Smoother777 |
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| Author: | Danzella [ Thu Aug 19, 2010 3:21 pm ] |
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Awesome man, approaching is great huh? Conversation should flow naturally, once you've opened and you've got their attention, its okay to talk about general stuff, but make statements rather than asking them questions, if you bombard them with questions they will get bored. But steer the conversation your way, if they say something that reminds you of a story, tell them that story, throw in some DHV spikes, and you're laughing. If one of them tries to interupt, neg her by saying "Is she always this loud? Where's her off button" Then continue the story, don't give her a chance to reply. |
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| Author: | Smoother777 [ Sat Aug 21, 2010 7:46 am ] |
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Nice, I like that, thanks for the tips; I'll def try that on my next approaches. |
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| Author: | Junglepimp [ Sat Aug 21, 2010 8:17 pm ] |
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What helps you while trying to make a conversation is leading yourself into believing that you are genuinely interested in the happenings in the life of the other person. Not in a kiss-ass or an interviewing way. You have to first your mind into believing that you are actually interested in the other person's life. Saying simple declarations to yourself (not affirmations, mind you) like "I am genuinely interested in the on-goings in the life of so&so" a few times in a day can go a long way as far as training your brain is concerned. |
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| Author: | Smoother777 [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 7:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Another question thanks for the previous tips |
Wow, from your post I realize that THAT is my problem. I honestly don't give a shit about the girl I'm talking too; I just want to F-close. That is so wrong and I want to change; I will start saying those things on a day to day basis and let you know how it works. Also, how can I get comfortable around women after they give me IOIs? I know I'm suppose to transition and get more intimate, but I feel like the group I'm hanging out with KNOWS my sole intention is to get with my target. Advice here would be MUCH appreciated. |
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| Author: | Junglepimp [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 10:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Another question thanks for the previous tips |
Quote: Also, how can I get comfortable around women after they give me IOIs?
Assuming you know what alpha-alpha male characteristics are (if you don't, you need to check the ebooks in my sig out), if execution is your problem, you should start off with chicks who are in your league and even those who's leagues you are out of. Because that is where you don't really care much if you mess up, which provides you with enough confidence and experience to try the same out with hotter chicks. Start from the ground and you'll get to the top soon.
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