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Author:  pie grande [ Mon Jul 26, 2010 4:45 am ]
Post subject:  what would you have done if you were in my shoes?

first i know this is kinda long but i think my failure can happen again and when it does i want to be ready i would apreciate you if you could help me please!!!!!!!

well i just came back from a dancing shows it was in a theater al all the people were sit down many people who went there were couples, old people, no HB, etc... i went to enjoy the show with my brother, his friend, a old lady, 2 gals and one of the gals bring a annoying kid of about 3 or 4 years old

here its what happened:
after watching the shows for like 40 minutes i turn back and saw this cute middle-east beauty and this is the FIRST TIME EVER in my life that i talk to a beautyful stranger so everytime i turn back she look at my eyes even when the current show havent end yet (i thought this was IoI so give it a shot) after about 22 minutes finished a beauty show (only womens showing off their bodies) so i turn back i gave her my opener:

it was kinda dark and i repeat to myself its dark so dont focus your sight in her cuteness just talk to her....

me: hey why arent you in the stage? that was a fashion show.... you are cute!!
gal: (hahahaha) thanks
*music was kinda loud but you could speak to someone without screaming the shit out of you you had to talk loud*
me: how long have you been sit behind me?
gal: just a while ago
me: how is that i didnt notice a cutie like you?
gal: thanks!!
me: are those your friends?
gal: yeah!
me: my name is joshua
gal: my name is gelradine
me: joshua (shaking hand with her friend)
*gal's friend didnt said anything*
me: what's your name?
gal's friend: what!!!?
me: your name!!!!
gal's friend: *dont really remember what was her name :lol:*
(came to my head a little joke)
me: (and with a serious face i told her...) i tried to get in to that fashon show but the casting director said i was too beautiful
gal: (i believe she didnt get my little joke) yeah its beautiful
me: so far my favorite one was the little kid dancing salsa...
gal: yeah it was cool i can dance but its belly dance (arabian dance)....
me: maybe you could teach me.....
gal: hahahaha if we ever meet again (was this rejection from her?)
*starts the next show first was a mambo and then a slutty male hip hop dance*
after this everytime when i turn back she didnt look at me in my eyes and she was focus on the current show
me: was that mambo?
gal: what?
me: was that mambo!!?
gal: yeah
me: i noticed you were totally focus when the guys on stage were dancing hip hop you have a crush on them right?
gal: nope! in dont like that kind of thing

the performers took a break of 10 minutes and the lights turns on
to my surprise she was a HB7.7 and have never even talk to a hb5 then i turn back to saw her several times and she didnt look at me she was talking with her friends and dont know if their friends were saving her from me (my worst nightmare ahhhh)

so thought that i shouldnt show much interest and just wait to the show to start again i live in venezuela and here if you know english youd be consider like a smart guy in a attemp to increase her IoI on me i pretend to have a conversation in english i spoke as loud as i could without screaming and she didnt even look at me her friend did and then turn right away
*the break ends and the show continues*
this time i didnt turn back to show her i have no interest on her (but i really do)

15 minutes later i hear a familiar voice saying "bye..." and turn back and it was her and her friends leaving the place shit!!! i wanted to kill myself opener was a blast the rest dhv stories, IoI, negs, etc... sucked as hell during all the time from beginning to ending the people who i go to the theater were like rock and they never talk to me i looked like a stupid lonely guy with his cellphone

did i did something wrong? what could have done my friends to help me out? did i get lucky because it was dark and when the lights turn on and she didnt liked the way i look? what would you have done in my shoes?

Author:  JCouncil [ Mon Jul 26, 2010 5:43 pm ]
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Hey man, JCouncil here out of Louisville, Ky.

Probably the thing in my opinion that hurt you the most was that you seemed to turn around and look at her a lot... And I mean way too much. To me it came across creeperish. On the first look you should have determined for yourself if you were going to give it a go, not continueally turning around to gaze at her. haha

Your opener, in my opinion, was too forward. You called her cute right off the bat. She should have to work for that honor of you telling her she's cute. I liked the "I'm too beautiful" part. That is like DeAngelo's cocky-funny and you should have definitely worked on the friends more so than the target. Keeping them interested and what not.

I'm sort of new, but I'm lucky to have a natural charm so the everything else I've read and watched has just been additional to my arsenal. If you haven't, read the book "the game" by neil strauss. that should help. There are a ton of great books he mentions in there to read as well. I carefully flew through "The Art of Seduction" and now I'm almost done with "the 48 Laws of Power".

I'm not MPUA by any means. However I'm an attractive guy who knows a little something about everything (which is great for conversations) and a lot about certain subjects like Music (which is where I derived my name). Check those books out brother. They are great starting points.

-JCouncil

Author:  pie grande [ Mon Jul 26, 2010 11:26 pm ]
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Any help would be most welcome :D thanks man

yes i know i turned back too much but when i stop doing it i didnt know if she was still talking with her friends or stopped so i can hit her up

is it good idea to interrupt a conversation between girls?

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