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| Author: | tacocat [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 10:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Holding interest...Need advice |
Okay so I can easily open girls and what not, but when it comes to holding interest, I'm having a bit of a problem. For example: I just got home from a party and I was gaming a girl from Santa Cruz. And yes I was adding in kino. Her "best friend" actually left us to talk, which was good, and I was able to guide her around the place, but when I found some friends, I started talking to them, and she disappeared! I ran into her twice but I was like w/e and we went our separate ways. So my question is, how do I keep the girl hooked throughout the night? How do I keep the separations to a miniumum? |
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| Author: | Chris101 [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 11:53 am ] |
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Yeah, this happens to me a fair bit. One minute you'll be talking to someone, then you look away for a second (or sip your beverage) and before you know it, they've wandered off somewhere else... and sometimes you don't have a clue where. And you don't want to look like you're prowling to re-engage so it puts you in an awkward situation. Same thing for when you're talking to a group, trying to build some social proof or jealously plots or something, and some people (including your target) leave it. |
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| Author: | tacocat [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 12:01 am ] |
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I've learned that those are just the dynamics of a party. Plus, I was buzzed and I'm sure she was too. Next time when I game, I don't plan on drinking. I'll also lead the conversation and keep the separations to a minimum. |
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