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Author:  bits [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:56 am ]
Post subject:  Environment effect on female behavior
This weekend, I was at a sports tourney with my sports club. I am only 18, and the girls age varied from 15 to 20, so I was having a good time.
In such a weekend, you notice that you become a group. A certain type of the so called 'own world' starts to form, and you have no clue what happens at home. All the people are in the moment, having a good time.

Of course things 'happen' during such a weekend, even though it was forbidden to sleep in someone else's tent. Several make outs happened, among them there was one which got me thinking:

The girl was a pretty girl. A bit cold-hearted, not too bright and probably a bit self-centered. 15 years old. She wasn't constantly hit on, but my guess is that she knows she's pretty. She has a boyfriend though.
The boy was a 16 year old loser. From all the guys around there, I'd portray him as the wannabe, incongruent, sloppy game or no game at all, not handsome, not smart. He's not even a nice guy...
So eventually they made out, after which she regretted it of course, and nothing more happened. Due to her cold behavior she can't get every boy out there, but she certainly can get better than this. (okay, maybe I'm acting a bit jaleous, but I'm trying to describe the facts here as good as possible ;) ).

So it got me wondering: Why is the girl risking her relationship to make out with him? Is it because of the own world-vibe hanging there? And if so, should we then try to get every girl out there on a tourney, simply because we can? Can we trow the moral problems overboard simply because girls do too?
Love to hear your thoughts on this.
Author:  cataclysm [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 11:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Environment effect on female behavior
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This weekend, I was at a sports tourney with my sports club. I am only 18, and the girls age varied from 15 to 20, so I was having a good time.
In such a weekend, you notice that you become a group. A certain type of the so called 'own world' starts to form, and you have no clue what happens at home. All the people are in the moment, having a good time.

Of course things 'happen' during such a weekend, even though it was forbidden to sleep in someone else's tent. Several make outs happened, among them there was one which got me thinking:

The girl was a pretty girl. A bit cold-hearted, not too bright and probably a bit self-centered. 15 years old. She wasn't constantly hit on, but my guess is that she knows she's pretty. She has a boyfriend though.
The boy was a 16 year old loser. From all the guys around there, I'd portray him as the wannabe, incongruent, sloppy game or no game at all, not handsome, not smart. He's not even a nice guy...
So eventually they made out, after which she regretted it of course, and nothing more happened. Due to her cold behavior she can't get every boy out there, but she certainly can get better than this. (okay, maybe I'm acting a bit jaleous, but I'm trying to describe the facts here as good as possible ;) ).

So it got me wondering: Why is the girl risking her relationship to make out with him? Is it because of the own world-vibe hanging there? And if so, should we then try to get every girl out there on a tourney, simply because we can? Can we trow the moral problems overboard simply because girls do too?
Love to hear your thoughts on this.
There are many adults who get drunk first, bring a girl home to make out and wake up the next day to become the boyfriend of the chick. Not many relationships are meant to be serious. Of course it depends on the person. There are girls who are faithful and some other who sleep with anyone they met. Everyone is different.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 12:16 pm ]
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woman are emotional creatures and if you stimulate their emotions in the right way you can get a make out or even sex... sex is always less likely but it happens.

I've picked up girls right i front of their boyfriends ... on one occasion a girl in 5 minutes - coulda kiss closed her with ease but i respect other people as well and i don't steal girlfriends.
Author:  zendelo [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 1:20 pm ]
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Listen she is 15, she doesn't know shit!

She is learning how to be a women, she is learning how to act around boys. She makes typical 15 year old mistakes, she doesnt know what to look for in a man.

She is fucking 15, not a women, she probably tries acting like she knows everything and acts like she is a women. But she is not.

She could have done that because of a lot of reasons, mabye she saw her friends making out with everyone, so she wanted to make out too.
And girls make out/ have sex alot quicker on vacation, because they know they are not going to see that person ever again afterwards.

Just remember she is 15 and there is no steady logic in her behaviour, untill she at least is done with puberty.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 1:33 pm ]
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don't forget some woman are 22 and they still don't know shit ...
Author:  bits [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 6:27 pm ]
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Quote:
Listen she is 15, she doesn't know shit!

She is learning how to be a women, she is learning how to act around boys. She makes typical 15 year old mistakes, she doesnt know what to look for in a man.

She is fucking 15, not a women, she probably tries acting like she knows everything and acts like she is a women. But she is not.

She could have done that because of a lot of reasons, mabye she saw her friends making out with everyone, so she wanted to make out too.
And girls make out/ have sex alot quicker on vacation, because they know they are not going to see that person ever again afterwards.

Just remember she is 15 and there is no steady logic in her behaviour, untill she at least is done with puberty.
Yes all true, but her age isn't my point. I've seen older girls doing it too (let's consider 20 years old to be post-puberty), with guys whom they will meet every week.

I'm focusing more on the SPAM hanging there, not on the actions of a single girl. Should this be considered as no more than ordinary cheating?
Author:  BrianTampa [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 6:57 pm ]
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environment/location DOES matter.

"When the cats away, the mouse will play".
"What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas".

its a fact that on average people cheat more when they are on vacation.

Also, an individual man will be more alpha in some situations than others. A good amateur athlete will be more desired at a sports tournement than when he is just walking down the street.

As far as sexual morality, I find that it is really fading out. You can't really put a lot of weight on the whole "boyfriend" status unless both people are physically together or at least live together. For all you know the girl has 5 "boyfriends" and looking for number 6.

Personally I do not hit on a woman if she is there with a date, or if she says she is married. That is just my personal standard for my own peace of mind. I know I am passing up sex to do this, but its just the way I was raised and I haven't changed it.
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