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| Author: | Jazzington [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 9:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Unable to make good conversation on friday. Need help please |
I'm quite new to the game and at the moment I'm eagerly consuming as much information as I can, but I need some specific guidance on this one. Me and my ex just broke up and there are a number of girls that I know socially that I am interested in and there is one specific event coming up this friday where I need to be prepared. There is this really nice and beautiful girl that I have worked with that I am interessted in. We have a good friendly chemistry but I need to communicate my interest in a subtle way. I don't know if she has a boyfriend, so obvisously I dont know her all that well. My problem is the same as I have with most women I am attracted to and generally people that I admire too much. I get so concerned about fucking it up that I usually say all the safe things and get out of there before I get the chance to do anything wrong. So there is no need for an opening here. We have plenty to talk about. I just need to get her to want to tell me about herself. I am quite good at conversation with people I know really well, but I often become unable to develope a good conversation with people I don't know that well, particularly if it is important to me that it goes well. In this case I also need to communicate my interest in a subtle way and give her a chance to communicate whether she is interessted. So I want to know about the science of asking the right questions. The ones that make her want to talk about herself and at the same time make her consider me as a potential subject for sex. This is the gap I most desperately need to bridge. I don't have a big problem with openings, and once I pick up that a girl is into me I think I can manage to move it on in the right direction. What I need therefor is to come prepared with some subjects or questions that can get my past this point. Also the event is one where there will probably be a good portion of people we both know, and we might both want to keep a flirt slightly hidden. I hope some of you can come up with some tips on this. I would really appreciate it. |
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| Author: | el_guapo [ Wed Jun 02, 2010 12:53 am ] |
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MOVIES> talk about movies. find out one she likes (facebook?) and then watch it & tak enotes (dont get stoned!) then bring it up and talk about how you identify with the characters. if she disagrees with your take, make her feel bad about it in a funny way. if she agrees, work it but dont let her off easy. challenge her & make her play catch up. THEN invite her to a movie. cut a hole in the bottom of the popcorn, put your dick in it, then get the saltgreasiest handjob of your life! |
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| Author: | zendelo [ Wed Jun 02, 2010 2:13 pm ] |
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I think you shouldn't practise on her. The problem lays with you confidence, you can have great conversations with good friends. So why can't you have them with strangers? Because you're not comfortable with strangers. And now you think by reading a lot of stuff about PUA you are prepared to game the chick you realy want. But it's not true, you're taking a risk of losing this girl you REALY want. You need to practise talking to strangers. I don't believe your comfortable opening girls, because that would have ment that you can have good conversations with strangers. So I say, practise opening strangers and having a random conversation. Keep it flowing, get comfortable with it. Then when you feel you are good in opening and talking to strangers, THEN you risk it on her. Packed with that new fresh confidence you are sure you can game this girl with succes. I can't give you advice on how to small talk with strangers, just do it. |
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| Author: | Abdul-aAfc [ Wed Jun 02, 2010 5:48 pm ] |
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The simplest things are usually the best. Sometimes you have to imagine you are ust talking to your best friend. Dude pickup is a science and two things could happen 1. You come in too hard and then scare her off 2,. You take your time to actually get to know her and then weave in the kino as you go along. I am sure you can hold a conversation with anyone. But all this "subject for sex" stuff will follow later on. You want to build some sort of chemistry and that will then lead to attraction. We all know what comes next. The next time you meet her I want you to imagine that you care more about her than anyone else in the world. Then have a normal conversation and she will feel it. |
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