Well your probably not finding it because you got the wrong name for it, its called the straw man technique. Heres the link enjoy.
http://charmingrogue.com/straw-man-tech ... -unveiled/
But be prepared its a pretty long read, but since im such a nice guy ill summarize the thing for you. Pretty much its saying,when your dealing with a girl who has a bf, dont do what an AFC would do. Make fun of the bf, like saying the dudes a jerk you deserve better, but instead put a load of social pressure on him. By social pressure i mean saying things like:
"You have a bf, no way. How does it feel to be in a perfect relationship? It must be incredible to find a guy who fulfills your every desire."
" Ill bet he`s the type of guy who treats you like a queen."
By putting on so much social pressure on the guy,so basically your building him up to such a high level that he cant measure up to it. And i did this all with out insulting the guy
Hope that made sense
-Fate