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Author:  NovemberRomeo [ Wed Apr 14, 2010 1:12 am ]
Post subject:  Facebook chat - DHV
Hi Everyone, i'm a newbie and after lurking for some days here, here's my first post.

I'm trying to convey some DHV to a girl ( she's 20 around a HB7, i'm 30 ) over facebook, we have met IRL and she gave me 1 or 2 IOI , so i'm trying to convey some DHV.. here's how the conversation went.

( Bare in mind this was my first attempt to use DHV since i'm still reading Mystery's book )

I was telling her "a friend is chatting with me over msn because he caught hi GF with another girl... would you consider it cheating ? "

She explains her point of view ( wich is irrelevant , i just want to bridge this into a DHV story ) .

And i'm like " You wouldn't believe how many friends i have asking me for advice on so many situations, i mean, i'm very loyal to my friends , but some situations they ask me advice for are crazy "...


i continue " this one friend asked me once what he should answer to a girl after she texted him asking him out " .. wich she replyed:

" It's normal, it's friendship.. people are very insecure nowadays "..

and i replyed: " i don't get it.. but i must be good putting peace of mind on others minds, otherwise they wouldn't look after me "

And i finished the conversation with " We should get a coffee sometime, since i'm going on vacations this thursday "

She replyed something like " Good for you :D "

And i finished the conversation.



My question is, i'm trying to pass the idea that my friends look for me because i'm their " tribal leader " , i'm a secure guy , a rarety nowadays , but the feeling i'm getting is that my DHV attemps were a bit poor and didn't work on her.

What kind of aproach should i try on her?
Neg her a bit ? She's a barmaid on weekends on a bar i usually go to, so she has like 50 guys hitting on her every weekend , so maybe if i neg her i might grab her attention , and mix it up with other DHV stories?
Author:  bits [ Thu Apr 15, 2010 8:22 pm ]
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Get your cocky&funny working. That's some David DeAngelo material... google it, and you should be able to find enough information ;)
Why should you use that? Because it is useful for building attraction, and because it's fun ;)

You're doing the MM, you're saying. What stage are you in with girl? Male-to-female interest (A2)? Remember each stage requires a slightly different strategy. What you're doing now is more the comfort-thing.
Remember that it's hard to express the right emotions through online interaction, not to mention the lack of kino. Use it to setup a day2 and use it as a time bridge. Normally IM-conversations will stall quickly.

As far as your question goes: A neg could be useful if she is used to get hit on, but maybe a bit of ballbusting is good enough. If executed well, A2 can be done in very short amount of time.
Now, go finish that book!
Author:  thebigtone [ Fri Apr 16, 2010 1:44 am ]
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I think FB limits your game massively as the other posts have said, no kino and no BL. Get a day 2 with her and talk in person.

Failing that i'd go for something more like...

HB: asks a question....
you: Answer question.
you: Ok seriously do i sound like a social worker how I answered that question?
HB: Er no, why?
you: Well I know friends are suppoosed to talk and help each other out but i've had like 5 messages in the last 3 days from different friends askign for some advise on real life changing stuff like should i marry etc etc. I mean is that normal?
Author:  TheTruthPUA [ Fri Apr 16, 2010 4:35 am ]
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simple key shit short - you shouldn't be worry about how to dhv over the internet that something u do in person. So does us all a favor ask her out and game in REAL LIFE!!!
Author:  LeVoir [ Mon May 03, 2010 3:35 pm ]
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Uh, I think your close for the conversation was too abrupt. It just seems a bit weird to see an opener put out on FB. But that's besides the point.

Try not to go "Hey we should meet up sometimes, I am doing...so and so..."

I find that girls are generally more responsive to something which starts with them. So I'd go with: "What'cha doing this thursday afternoon?" If she is free then suggest a meet up, if she isn't just relax and let it be. Either ways it can't hurt, but at least you don't put yourself in a spot by saying that you are available at the time first. (:

My 2 cents.
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