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| Author: | dayghost [ Mon Mar 22, 2010 9:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to deal with a girl you've known for a while |
I know she'd be interested but I don't wanna move in too fast cuz that would make it awkward since I've known her for a while. I am giving her suttle hints and she would be interested in a day 2. How do I approach this? |
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| Author: | Fringe [ Thu Apr 01, 2010 1:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Can be trouble |
You've got to try to make the game match the personality you've portrayed up to this point otherwise it's going to seem really off and she'll just think something's wrong. Try to kino escalate as best you can since that's probably not too far out of what she'd expect from you. Best thing for you to do is escalate and move in for the kill shot. Either she goes for it and you have a awesome time, or she doesn't and you get to move on to other targets. Good luck. |
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| Author: | TheTruthPUA [ Thu Apr 01, 2010 10:19 am ] |
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Go in their slowly try flirting see how she responds if she responds negatively, u basically have no chance so don't proceed any further or you risk losing a friend... if she responds positively, kick the flirting up, kino, and start putting ideas of being more than friends in her head. |
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| Author: | Snyper3xs [ Thu Apr 08, 2010 6:16 am ] |
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Try and keep it all her idea if you can. Will work better that way. Or at least let her think it was all her idea. |
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| Author: | jmoneypua [ Sun Apr 11, 2010 7:30 pm ] |
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Dude: First of all, guys who are worried about making things akward are pussies. Don't be a pussy. Do you know how many girls fantasize about shit like this all of the time. Read a book, like "My Secret Garden" or some shit like that, and get into the MINDSET that women love it when a man, who isn't their boyfriend, has the balls to make a move on them. And Secondly, you have to be okay with losing her as a friend. You have to be okay with, if you make a move and she rejects you, then you could very well lose her for good. Pickup does not reward the weak or those who play it safe. Try just kissing her at first. Get her alone, somehow, when you see her. Try telling her something like, "remember that time you called me boring? well i wanted to prove you wrong. so close your eyes" and go in for the kiss. Just find an excuse to get her guessing and to close her eyes. I literally did the exact same thing, bro. And it worked so well. From there, if you want her as your girlfriend, just remember that she has to want to be your boyfriend first. Hope this helps! |
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| Author: | Cowboy_09 [ Mon Apr 19, 2010 11:55 pm ] |
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All of the above Ramp up the sexual tension and flirting. Next time she is talking drift away and then say "sorry, i was totally staring at your tits then" I always make a few long awkward silences and maintain eye contact, raising my eyebrows as though i am up to something Most of all though as he said above, be a man. Girls love sex, realise this, set a sexual frame and keep building on it |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 11:39 am ] |
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Quote: just remember that she has to want to be your boyfriend first.
Fail. Thought it was funny. Basically what some of the guys here said: You gotta make baby steps and test her comfort levels. I do NOT advise you to make giant-alphamale moves on her, since it risks making her uncomfortable around you and thus, you risk losing an actual friend. So slowly escalate (not too slow) and test her comfort levels. Start off with the playful kino, then some flirting combined with it, then some more intense kino etc etc. Whatever fits the situation (I know nothing of how it's between the chick and you). If she negatively responds to anything you do - slightly freezeout and IOD, then do it again (this can be in a course of a few days, not just that moment). This will give her the image that you're actually a person that regularly flirts/touches, so she better get used to it. .... And of course, if this goes too far and you risk losing her - just stop it. Don't push it anymore and move on. |
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| Author: | NJ [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 12:03 pm ] |
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Start a discussion with her, some sort of opinion routine (something juicey though) playfully disagree with her opinion, once you’ve got to the end look her in the eye and, with meaning, say something like “ I always thought you were……. But now I’ve seen a different side to you, I like this you! Then you can move on to a false disqualification, then screening questions and kino, ect, |
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| Author: | jmoneypua [ Tue May 18, 2010 5:58 am ] |
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Little Panda: "just remember that she has to want to be your boyfriend first." What's not to understand about that comment? I'm saying that you don't want to force her into a relationship that she doesn't want any part of. Remeber this, my friend....WOMEN ARE THE REAL CHASERS...If you're good enough at pickup and whatnot, they will come after you for a relationship...NOT the other way around. |
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| Author: | Davinski [ Tue May 18, 2010 12:38 pm ] |
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Quote: Little Panda:
How can a girl be someones boyfriend ? haha
"just remember that she has to want to be your boyfriend first." What's not to understand about that comment? I'm saying that you don't want to force her into a relationship that she doesn't want any part of. Remeber this, my friend....WOMEN ARE THE REAL CHASERS...If you're good enough at pickup and whatnot, they will come after you for a relationship...NOT the other way around. |
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