heya
ok so i had the same problem and i talked to the chief, but we'll come back to that later.
anyways we all kno that to go from flirting to a k close we have to have kino escalation, so there's at least a proper build up to a kclose, HOWEVER escalating kino is hard at a work place because like u said it might lead to sexual harrasment. SO what do we do? we go back to wat the chief said.
which is use SOI (statement of intent) with a kino reward.
for example "hey hb8 can u hold this ?"
pretend to do something else
then take it back off her and say "thanks"
THEN
reward her with a kino touch, the more soi, the more kino, therefore more escalation, then u can escalate to a point where she's comfortable with a kclose.
IM NOT 100% SURE ON THE SUBJECT BUT THIS IS THE GIST OF IT, it hasnt actually worked for me, mainly cause i dont get enough alone time with the hb im trying to game and also i recommend PM'ing the chief for more info.
OH ONE MORE THING
are u sure the bf thing wasnt a shit test?
or have u actually met/seen bf?
and u might wanna try the bf destroyer technique as well