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| Author: | FelterX [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 5:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | whats the most common thing to say after opening? |
Just trying to get a few tips/examples on what you guys do after you open a set.... pua: hi/ who are you guys? / whatever... hb: hi/ bla bla pua: (then what do you guys typicallydo) I have trouble thinking clearly. I usually forget to lock in, then i ask typical questions like im interviewing her. On the outside I know i look calm, but in the inside im a ball of nerves. what do you guys usually directly after opening? |
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| Author: | Ash121 [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 11:59 pm ] |
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Wish I could give you an answer dude. I'm pretty new at this too and it's the age old question for me as well! Some sets open fine when you have a common interest and have met through a mutual friend but cold opening as I call it, when you just walk up to a random HB just doesn't hook. First thing is practice. Secondly what I'm always conscious of is, is to present good body language. Those are the only tips I can give you but I'm sure there are others on here that can tell you what their tips are and provide some good material to transition too! |
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| Author: | Darkie [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:55 am ] |
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Hi, hey, how are u? These are all direct openers. So if ur goin to use a direct opener u can continue by askin an opinion question or just transition into any other topic that ur comfortable with. Pua: hey hb: hi pua: how are u? Hb: I'm doin good, thanks pua: oh dat was rude ( do dis with a friendly smirk) (whole purpose of this line is to neg the hb so dat u can keep the convo goin) hb: I'm sorry, wat r u talkin about? Pua: well where I'm frm, it's alwys courteous to b concerned about a person's day and usually the person bein question'd would ask the questioner the same in return. Hb: well ur kinda rite, I'm sorry how's ur day goin? Pua: well my day was fine until I saw this hb, and I greeted her to c how nice o a smile she has... ( leave it open ended to c if she catches on and tries to qualify herself) that's just a simple example of how u can take it. Dnt b scared to make stuff up. Hope this made sense. I myself don't usually use direct openers I like indirect and opinion openers |
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