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| Author: | bowie [ Wed Mar 03, 2010 2:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | i don't understand why convince a women is a bad idea? help! |
sorry guys English is not my mother tongue,and recently i start improving my English. anyway let me get to the point,the reason i am posting this post is i don't understand why men must stop convincing women and giving them logical reasons, and why must do not argue with women?? i really don't understand. after explain me this. dear friends help me find out my mistake from this short story of mine,please guys i want to improve myself: 2weeks before i meet a girl and we was so close with each other,,she let me sit near her,she text me sarcastically she likes me, she let me kiss her neck,let me hold her hand. but one day she had a bad day, so i want to make her feel good,i call her to meet me near my hostel.she said she don't want come, but i said, "i know about you,i know you will come and meet me,and i want meet you,i don't want you be unhappy cause you had a bad day,so i will come and wait for you near hostel" i thought saying like this is confident man behavior. but she never come and i wait for her half and hour and went back. when i text her she angry at me cause she never ask me to come and wait.(i don't care about her,i want to become improved in pua and learn from my mistake,i thought i care for her to change her mood and i thought saying that "i know you will come and meet me" is confident men talking style. so tell me what wrong i did here????) then after that the next day both of us get normal and start talking and laughing ready, but not close as last time, after few days later i had a bad day and i was texting her in awhile and awhile, i don't know she was sleeping that why she never reply, but later when i call her suddenly she picked up and ask WHAT in a angry voice, then i put down and text her more then 10pages what actually happen to me,why i mood out,then told her we was so close before this,i hold your hand, i kiss u,and u said i am important person to you, so why now we fighting, i don"t want any miss understand like this happen after this k. and i said talk to you tomorrow lets forget about today k. but from that day till now,she don"t text me or answer my calls. guys please tell me all my mistakes, i am interest to learn guys, please care and read one more time and reply my post, hope you all will teach me, thank you. |
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| Author: | Intensity [ Wed Mar 03, 2010 3:15 am ] |
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Here's what it sounds like to me: While your message may have been confident, she probably didn't perceive it that way. I get a sense of real frustration while reading this, so it's more than likely that you came across as desperate - especially when you were piling up your texts on her. Texting in general is a good way to screw up the success you've already been working towards/having. Try limiting how often you text one particular person, and try taking breaks from sending messages or leaving it up to her to initiate conversations. Rather than interpretting it as being confidence when you tried to meet her, the message she probably got from it was "I'm perfectly willing to drop whatever I'm doing for you." Being supportive is good, but if you come across as caring too much then it seems to her like you don't have many other important things to be doing/girls to be seeing, and it looks like desperation again. |
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