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Author:  Loga23 [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 10:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Need Some Advice.

Aight so basically here's the main point's to cut a long story short.

- Known who she was for about 1 1/2 years.
- Known her for about 3 months.
- Already kissed but when we were both drunk.
- Number closed through Facebook.
- Never spoke on a phone call & we only talk when i send the first text message & we went up to 4 weeks without talking until i finally reached out again but she's always interested in my texts but only responds when theres a question to be answered.
- We've been on 2 dates but haven't kissed on those dates (To a bar & the movies).
- Recently, she started flaking out (2 days in a row). First excuse was she wasn't up for going out & second was she was out of town for the weekend.
-Also, she has a very close friendship with two girls & everything revloves around them. It's always we this, we that.
- Most important point is we don't live in the same city. About 30 minutes apart & only get to see each other about twice a month or 3 times at most.
- Lastly, she puts on a front around me. Ive seen her dance & drink in a club but when we went to a bar she refused both & puts on im a good girl front.

& i forgot to mention, the hard thing for me is that i kinda devolped feelings for her. So it's difficult for me to go days without texting & etc. But i dont know how she feels at all.

Now, my question is what's the deal with her? Why is it i always have to start the communication? & is she getting bored or playing a game? Just need some advice on what ya'll think i should do.

Author:  Ezo [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 10:51 pm ]
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I see what you mean bro! She is getting bored. You should have pulled the trigger when you had the chance. Back off. Wait a while. Get back in, wash, repeat...

Author:  Loga23 [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 11:07 pm ]
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Yeah, I agree she is getting bored. But wouldn't waiting kill it off? Shouldn't i do something crazy to reignite the attraction? But if waiting is the best thing how long should i wait? cause i tried waiting last time & went a month without any communication made from her.

Author:  Ezo [ Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:16 pm ]
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Waiting doesnt kill it off. Depends on how long you wait of course. If you start grinding now you will lose. If you wait and return you can have a fresh start...

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