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| Author: | slimsta [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 2:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | after getting a number, how long to wait to text? |
i think that texting the same day will come up as needy or as "he has been thinking about me for the whole time" i usually wait a day so she thinks that i was busy with other shit and not only thinking about her.. what do you guys think? should i text like 3-4 hours later or a day after or when? |
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| Author: | Bloodmuffin [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 5:52 am ] |
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Call her 2-3 days after you get the number and if you get voicemail then leave a message with your intended message. Dont ask is she wants to meet up just ask when she wants to meet up then make your suggestion. |
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| Author: | mR.e [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 6:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | hmm |
hey mate it depends on the girl. some girls text alot, there for texting is great. i personally text alot but iv noticed it can be extremely boring for some girls if you just text and they lose interest. i suggest texting the next day or day after, seeing if she texts back and how much she says in a text. then wait like a day or 2 and just make a phone call. its more comforting to talk on the phone you can express more which makes it over all better, as well as make plans that she cant back down on its up to you, cant really go to wrong dont do anything drastic thats about it mR.e |
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| Author: | slimsta [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 6:55 am ] |
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my buddy told me that if its better to text on the same day because this way you will show interest, otherwise, she will think that "you arent really interested anyways so what the point".. but yeah it depends on the girl mainly. |
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| Author: | Paul??? [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 7:01 am ] |
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Like everyones said depending on the girl. But if you keep it a few days there's a good chance she's forgotten you. Dont forget your not the first person to approach her and or get her number. Depends on the girl. |
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| Author: | David_T [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 7:44 am ] |
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2-3 days. Dude did you get that rule from watching tv or something? That is wrong man, if you want to get with this girl call her the next day! or wait one day. Seriously, it doesn't make you sound desperate or anything (unless you got her number in a really desperate way). If you give her 2-3 days, see hot girls get hit on a lot and in 2 days someone will replace you. I've made the two days mistake, I have a lot more success waiting just one day now. |
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| Author: | SoZoS [ Fri Jan 22, 2010 9:30 am ] |
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Quote: 2-3 days. Dude did you get that rule from watching tv or something?
I agree on the one day text/call but the best thing is not to try and setup a date in the first contact, just to make sure shes still reseptive, and you can increase/keep the attraction alittle first, then then next text/call in a day or two to setup a date. As has been said mostly depends on the girl. Need to calibrate alot! That is wrong man, if you want to get with this girl call her the next day! or wait one day. Seriously, it doesn't make you sound desperate or anything (unless you got her number in a really desperate way). If you give her 2-3 days, see hot girls get hit on a lot and in 2 days someone will replace you. I've made the two days mistake, I have a lot more success waiting just one day now. -SoZoS |
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