I need to ask...how long have you known her?/How long has this routine been going on?
If it hasn't been too long then it's probably not too late. Don't use an opener however, because this girl will already feel open. Proceed directly to mid game. My advice? Game her when class ends. That way you have a good transition and you can easily turn it into an isolation.
On the other hand, if it has been a while, you will need to show SERIOUS disinterest. The fact that you said you have feelings for her heightened her sense of awareness and put her on guard. You will need to dispel that. Most people would probably say to use negs to do this, but I say flat out ignore her for a while. This will cause her to think "Oh, I guess he doesn't like me anymore..." Then, open her back up (i.e. use an opener).
Keep in mind a couple things...if she's initiating to ANY degree it means that she's interested in you in SOME way to SOME extent (just don't go giving her answers or anything! =P). Also, if you feel like you've fell into the "friend zone" (though judging from what you've said this isn't necessarily the case) remember, the friend zone is NOT inescapable. My friends and I have disproved the ladder theory and it's friend zone myths, as I have hooked up with "just friends" and my two friends (one of them being pua Iden Cross, so if you are interested I could probably get his advice on the subject for you too) are going out with someone who was a "friend." So remember, if you think that by telling this girl your feelings you are stuck in the friend zone, all is not lost my friend. Besides, you were drunk right? That's legit the greatest excuse in the world. If she questions you on your feelings just be like, "Oh, my b, I was drunk" If she goes "Yeah...uh-huh" in a sarcastic way just neg her by saying something, "Whoa, don't flatter yourself ok?"
Good luck bro!
...oh btw, is this college or high school? ...because that changes what you do during the next step.
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could anyone offer some general advice/conversation starters/teases.