--Building your confidence
I think what would help a lot is knowing that you know how to show a girl a good time, this in itself will build a lot of needed confidence, especially for this type of situation (There is already attraction and she is clearly interested)
Once you are confident in this and go out showing this girl a good time (This is as easy as just having a really good time yourself - its contagious) she will naturally be attracted to this confident fun guy.
You need to hang around friend girls, if you haven't got friend girls, get some. Girls are fun to go out with, build your confidence and great for DHV (Especially hot friend girls
)-- Getting the girl home--
- this obviously depends on how the night went:
I think the best way to do this without blatantly asking her "do you wanna come home with me" is to entice her with something fun and seemingly harmless
. "Come to my place to smoke some hubbly, I blow mad smoke rings!" - Seem excited about whatever you are wanting to do with her, as if that is the real reason you want her to come. I might even look at her and say... "But don't try anything sneaky! (and give her a smile)" (I think this is push//pull technique)
just remember: The game is already over! She is too keen for words and you have already closed her... Its going to take special effort to mess this up and if she doesn't come home with you on the first night. DON'T WORRY and DON'T try force issues, there will be a million other chances! Remember... YOU ARE THE MAIN!
Anyone please feel free to rectify me if I'm incorrect on any of this as I am a novice.