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Author:  graplin [ Sat Dec 12, 2009 2:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Mental Oneitis.... Advice please?

Hey fellow PUA practitioners

Ok I posted something recently about a uni girl i met one night. I am a doorman and met her in the club i work.

She is a nightmare when it comes to replying to text messeges and leaves it a day to reply to me! (drives me mad).

I "F closed" her Wednesday night as she invited me to her's for a after party with her 2 house mates and brother. When i got there i was relaxed and started drinking with them all... conversation and banter was flowing. Then she spoke of this song and asked if i knew it, i said i did but neva really listened to the words, she proceded to play it and repeted it about 7 times! but i got the point of the song and we got down to it. I have to add at this point she was one of the sexiest fucks i have ever had and did things I was really impressed with.

Now I left her place at 5.30am and sent her a txt when I woke later that day. And again nothing till the next day. I went a bit AFC and told her we have falen out as I thought I had her attention for 5 mins ( no kiss) and she replied shortly after saying "Your obviously not a fan of less is more"! then asked how work was that night. I replied to her question and ended with a question, she still hasn't replied.

Feeling Pussy whipped at the moment, and not use to this ignorance from a girl. Its driving me mad.

The mad thing is I have got a few girls that im in contact with but for some reason this one stands out! Im meetin another girl tonight but for some reason i just keep thinking about this one.

I guess She has flipped my game on me the bitch, haha.

Help a brothe out with some sound advice please.. Cheers guys. x

Author:  Tianman [ Sun Dec 13, 2009 6:03 pm ]
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Yea dude, i completely understand what you mean. i am exactly the same.
If i really like a girl, i tend to find excuses to break the PUA code and turn wussy on her. I hated it, so i looked for an answer to the problem

you see, the way you feel about this girl is simply a strong chemical reaction. the thought or sight of this girl triggers your brain to realease chemicals that bring on these emotions. Its the same for approach anxiety. Next time you find yourself wanting to call or text this girl wondering why she hasnt called or texted you, just think to yourself "this is just another stoopid chemical reaction in my head" it wont help how you feel,but it will help you take controll of your emotions.

Hope this helped.

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