I agree too, it was kind of a shit test because she went over boart with it like "yah i'm gona miss my own birthday just to o the bar with you , you wanna do it?".
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She : *laughs* ah come on im a good friend. By the way my real b-day isnt untill this thursday and i rather go to this bar with you.
But it wouldn't be a shit test if she was like "blah blah yah I have a free day 2morrow, wanan go to the bar?", you could just acted normal and go on the 'date" but because in your case she took it to the "extreme" it was a sit test Oh and btw if something like that happens to you again or someone flakes on you just be like: 'its cool, I'm still going there with my friends, gonna have a good time
", you are Alpha after all, you are showing that if something happens you will still have fun and if that's not actually true you are still training yourself to be non reactive, it's the same as if you are pumped to go out with your friends and they flake, you won't stay at home and be depressed that they flaked, you are still going because you want to have fun Cheers