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| Author: | coldnhot [ Sat Nov 21, 2009 7:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Making convo beyond average, making attractive convo |
Quick Q; How do I make myself come off more attractive when me and a girl are having a conversation. How do I come off as the attractive guy that she wants to find out more about, how do I pull her into being interested in ME? Sorry for the n00b question. I read The Game a while ago and really gave up on PUA and everything because i've been busy with other things in life and actually just completely had to disregard the pursuit of women, but i want to try it again. |
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| Author: | Right [ Sat Nov 21, 2009 4:05 pm ] |
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push pull tactics, is the basic. you want to be almost not affected by anything she says. dont become a dog with a wagging tail. its ok to be like oh thats cool - wait, thats kinda weird! hah tell me more. but dont be like OH MY GOD YOURE AMAZING! reward qualities you do like about her or good things she does. "punish" her bad qualities and bad things she does. even if its irrelevant, girl: yeah, ive sky dived before - its awesome! guy: wow, youre adventurous arent you? i bet sky diving does wonders for you hair. girl: of course im adventerous (SHE JUST QUALIFIED TO YOU), but hair?? how?? guy: (drop the adventerous talk like its no big deal) well, falling out of the sky is like a big blow dryer no? talk about your life, you say youre busy? tell her all the great things you do. not in a boring way, in a funny way, put everything you in an extreme twist. |
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| Author: | coldnhot [ Sat Nov 21, 2009 8:24 pm ] |
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What if you want to compliment her? How do you disqualify her and qualify explain further please |
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| Author: | ATM16 [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 12:41 am ] |
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Just wondering would this be an example of push/pull? I was talking to this girl about setting up a second date on msn. me: We'll have fun if I decide to take you out again HB8: If lol me: Yeah.....if me: Would you like to go out again? HB8: I'll consult my magic 8ball to see IF i want to go out with you again me: Go ahead HB8: It says "It's less than likely" me: Guess thats that then. Nice talking to you. (I stop typing anything) HB8: Doesn't mean I always listen to my magic 8ball me: You busy this weekend HB8: Yeah doing a gig with my band me: Cool, well You'll need to rest friday so that your ready for Saturday and knowing you you'll need to recover sunday so I'm not taking you out then as your company will be pretty brutal. I'm busy Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday. That leaves Wednesday. HB8: I'm taking my nieces out Wednesday me: No problem. A week on wednesday we'll go out HB8: yeah sounds good |
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| Author: | Energy_ [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 7:07 pm ] |
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Quote: What if you want to compliment her?
Just as Right wrote, its okey to give her compliments.How do you disqualify her and qualify explain further please But its the way you say it. DONT get exiceted by the achivement itself, be exiceted about the setup that made it possible. HB: I skydived last year. You: Thats cool. I'd never tell. - But I bet someone pushed you out of that airplane. HB: No way. I was scared and all but.. I did it. You: So youre one of thoose rare people who really rises up to the challange. Thats nice. But come on! The skydiving idea couldnt have been yours... HB: Well, actually it was my friend who convinced me. You: HA! I knew it. Whats the coolest thing you ever done.. that YOU came up with yourself? See. Compliment + tease. |
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