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| Author: | thelenzel [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | 3rd date. Good to open up? |
Soo. Ive known this girl through myspace, and last friday we met in person We've been talking through myspace, msn and texts for about 3 weeks before finally meeting up. Tommorow Im gonna see her for the 3rd time in person ... This is not just another pickup, this girl and I have this kind of connection going on, even before we met each other, she told me she liked me... (In spanish: "Te quiero") Anyways, even though its only the 3rd time we see in person, it feels like we've known for soo much longer (about a month) ... She has confessed me she is afraid to meet someone (because she told me abut her ex boyfriend, that she loved him very much but he lied to her, so now he kinda hates him) , so she told me she was afraid to meet someone and get hurt. I guess, if she has confessed things like this, maybe its time for me to open up, talk about my past, let her know more about me, let her feel comfortable around me. I still want to do the cube on her to know her better. I want to ask her if she is still shy to ask me to see her certain days (Because she is a very shy girl) Also, I want to tell her that I want her to be honest with me all the time, because I will always be honest... I really see this going into a relationship ... Theres also I need some advice on. Even though I know shes not the kind of girl that would be going out (NOT DATING) but going out with more than 1 guy. I want to find a way to tell her "if you were seeing other guys, would you tell me?" ... or "I want you to tell me if you're seeing other guys" ... I don't know how this sounds, I really don't see myself saying something like that because it kinda has jealousy spikes... not the kind of bad jealousy though ... I heard girls like it when guys get a little jealous. Help here, I would gladly appreciate it =) |
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| Author: | Ray Charles [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:04 pm ] |
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If letting her get comfortable around you is your goal, there are other alternatives other than telling her everything about you. Mind if i ask a little bit more about your status with her? For example, have you kissed her yet? |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:14 pm ] |
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Quote: If letting her get comfortable around you is your goal, there are other alternatives other than telling her everything about you.
Yes, we have kissed every day since I met her, but basically this is our first time really alone, with trust.Mind if i ask a little bit more about your status with her? For example, have you kissed her yet? The first date she was very nervous, the 2nd time, her best friend was there, so today is going to be the day, where basically we'll be alone, with more trust. I've known her for more than that of course, we've talked through MSN, Myspace and Text Messaging (I barely call her, because, cellphone calling in Mexico is really expensive, so is texting lol) ... She's told me she feels like goosebumps whenever she kisses me, and she is a very shy person overall. I just want us to know more of each other, to progress to the next level of the "dating", which is a relationship. |
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