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| Author: | pokerslut321 [ Thu Oct 15, 2009 1:14 am ] |
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Not sure if I am posting in the correct forum....i apologize if that is the case...i'll make this quick.... I've known this chick for about 5 yrs now...she always had a boyfriend and i had a girlfriend most of the time and we kept in touch over the last 5 yrs... but over the last yr or so, both of us have been single..we started talking a lot and finally made plans to meet at the park (i told her i go there with my dog and she was more then welcome to join me)...it ended up raining that day and we couldnt meet...2 weeks later she tells me she started dating some guy at work who she thinks its not gona work out with anymore...then she started telling me about her problems and shit on the phone and once i realized she was putting me in the "friends zone" i think it was too late...i eventually told her i had to get going...shes been going through some health issues and other stressful situations as well like her financial issues, so i dont wana come across as a dick, because i do care for her, but at the same time, i dont wana be her "buddy" or "therapist"...i dont have one-itis for her, but i could see myself becoming attached to her...obviously i know she would be a great girlfriend, so any suggestions on how i can convey this to her considering the circumstances? She i just tell her straight up how i feel?....shes an HB 10 by the way, so she would be the hottest girl i ever got with if i can make it happen....she actually has a great personality too, which is rare with some of these hot women....help please... |
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| Author: | pokerslut321 [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 4:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Wish someone would reply |
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| Author: | Voodoo.Fresh [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 9:29 am ] |
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how responsive is she to kino? kino her as a lover and not as a friend, try teasing, run some BFDs and try to re-meet. also you'll have to do a lot of re-framing, I'd like to hear if someone here has a good way/routine for that, tell her you two could never be a couple (say it like you apologize), half jokingly. I gave it some thought, trying to gain girls I lost at my pre-game stage, but found it to be a hard task to accomplish. btw and IOIs? |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 9:55 am ] |
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NO NO NO NO NOOO |
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| Author: | Truncheon [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 10:24 am ] |
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Consider this girl lost, next. |
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| Author: | pokerslut321 [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 5:37 am ] |
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wow nobody has any strategies or anything? thought this was a PUA forum....any experts out there? should i just forgot about this chick?...the best PUA's wouldnt just give up here and move on..would they? |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 4:05 pm ] |
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Quote: wow nobody has any strategies or anything? thought this was a PUA forum....any experts out there? should i just forgot about this chick?...the best PUA's wouldnt just give up here and move on..would they?
Ok, to this day I still dont understand why guys push it when it comes to this ONE GIRL that they MUST have. Its an endless story. Most guys are insecure with women and are secretly craving acceptance from them. So when they find this ONE girl they cling to her like she is a godess. And girls HATE it. You say she is a HB 9 or 10 or whatever. It doesnt matter. Why do you NEED this one girl? The only way to make girls like you and love you is by showing that you are a man and that you dont NEED their asses to be happy. Girls love your message that you send in the world. Girls want to love your manhood that you project. Women want to be sure, that you will take care of things. Not that you are a scared little bitch who is worried about being a "dick". So if you want a quick advice, you came to the wrong forum. Let this girl be a lesson to you. I hope she brakes your needy heart so you get real next time and you finally realize what it means to be a fuckin man. Take care. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 4:19 pm ] |
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Why do a lot of guys with oneitis say that they don't have oneitis? Denial is such a tricky thing, huh? |
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| Author: | pokerslut321 [ Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:11 pm ] |
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well said...guess i gotta man up and stop not caring about one particular girl...any suggestions of how not to be a a lil bitch when u start liking a chick?...or how to condition ur mind to not show it or genuinely not care? |
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| Author: | Nindo [ Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:32 pm ] |
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From my understanding, just don't let yourself feel like you have lost value because of it. Understand that you played your cards wrong, and learn from it. You don't have to fake anything. Just allow it to give you the motivation to make sure you play the game right. At risk of dlving myself, i have been on the forum only 3 days, so maybe take my advice with a grain of salt. 
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Wed Oct 21, 2009 7:56 pm ] |
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Well man, first thing you can do is to admit that you like the chick. The second thing you do is, follow your feeling that comes up. For us guys the first feeling that comes up is grief. So you will feel a sense of sorrow and almoust self pitty when you admit yourself that you are insecure. At that point, just follow your feeling and allow yourself to feel grief deeply. Dont stop it, dont try to make logical decisions, dont try to make yourself feel better.. just feel. And once you do, you will feel a deep connection with yourself that you never had before. From that, you can work your way up. If you dont reach the bottom, you will never reach the top. So reach your bottom feeling. Follow it down. You made the first step, you admited that you are a bitch, so to speak. Now when you did that, you can start making some progress. All you can do right now, is commit yourself to becoming a full man. And becoming a real man is a process. You cant just wake up one day and say.. Im a man.. and here come the bitches  ( from david d. on being a man joke )So, maybe you can start with making a clear picture of what kind of a man you want to be. Start looking for other men arround you, and notice their qualities. And than slowly, assemble your own personality. At some point, you will have to face your fears, and that will be the time that you will really make some huge progress. You will literary transform yourself. And than, when you get connected with that deep sense of self, that strong route that no one can shake, than you will become incredibly attractive to women and the rest of the world. So stick with it. Quick advice: When you notice that you are starting to wuss out, STOP. So let us all know how you do in the future. And remember, Be a fuckin man. |
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| Author: | Charlie Neptune [ Wed Oct 21, 2009 11:43 pm ] |
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The information available in this community is mostly for going out and meeting new girls and how to carry yourself. While just about nothing on here is geared for this scenario you can use what is available in creative ways. You are well past a "pick-up" period with her. You know each other well and have established comfort. Any attempt to seduce her has to come off as a sudden new thought. You don't want your previous years of frienship to be based on attraction. That will seem creepy. Take her out somewhere unexpected. Do something that interests you that she may not have known about you or done with you before. Go crazy and be lots of fun. Dont hold back, show her your entire silly side. When shes laughing and having lots of fun look at her with surprise. Tell her you never saw that side of her, that she can be so much fun. Hold her hand (kino and start to anchor). Look her in eyes and say, "crazy thought......no, we're just friends....crazy". Substitute a different phrase if you like. It's power is in kino by holding her hand or touching her arm. You will start to anchor with the word you said twice, "crazy". Go right back to having fun. Later when she is laughing, touch her again the same way and just smile, say "crazy", and go back to having fun. Your touch will be associated with attraction, your phrase will be associated with an exciting NEW idea. Don't let on you felt anything previously. You are both single and you saw her in a new light. Re-framing and charming. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Thu Oct 22, 2009 2:12 am ] |
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Quote: well said...guess i gotta man up and stop not caring about one particular girl...any suggestions of how not to be a a lil bitch when u start liking a chick?...or how to condition ur mind to not show it or genuinely not care?
If you're anything like me, you probably love women... REALLY love women...Get out of the house and start flirting with a bunch of other beautiful women. Abracadabra oneitis is gone Oh, and GFTOW is the standard community cure for oneitis |
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