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Author:  ImNaShitFool [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:29 pm ]
Post subject:  complicated ass friendzone situation
K, so this chick who was my boys (somewhat) ex girl of 5 years hit me on myspace a whilllleeeeee back... & was basically tryin to get the dick lol, she even admited it later. Anyways, first day we hung out I made out with her & it got kinda heavy but she held out a bit... (like a week) but later we ended up fucking anyway...

K, so, along this time, she started talking to me, & we got close, & I learned that this chick was fuuuuuucckkkedd up, but had potential...(like life potiential, not sex or anything like that) so I helped her out... she had problems where she didn't respect herself, & she was letting dudes fuck her & her ex make her make shitty decisions & now she's not doing that, she cut the ex off even tho he still tries to fuck her like once a week and fails... & she got her cna & a job at a nursing home & she's working on med school.

So now, were tight ass friends but were no longer fucking... but we do the occasional make out & she quits cuz she don't wanna fuck up the friendship...

She's real attached, she even kinda looks up to me, like... if I say something she normally listens like I was her older brother or something

So, now I still wanna fuck, but don't wanna be underhanded or manipulative to do it.. Cuz I could easily pull some slick shit, but I don't wanna fuck the friendship up either, cuz she's a cool chick or w/e.

So how do I convince her its all good?
Author:  BadolzoN [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:55 pm ]
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Lmao dude.

Don't associate yourself with lowgrade females.

Meeting a girl 3 minutes in and fucking her in the bathroom doesn't make you a pick up artist, she was just easily and low quality.

I didn't have time to read it all, but I read the first few words and I wouldn't even associate myself with types of chicks like that, period.

So many girls all around the world no need to stress.

Also, I'd fuck her every day.

It can be fun fucking for you but she will get attached.

Just let her know she's your buddy... And pull some slick shit on her, fuck her, then the next day say "hi" to her as if you guys never had sex and are cool with each other.

If she's an HB8 + then date her, she seems like a green light if you guys fucked already.
Author:  ImNaShitFool [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 1:10 pm ]
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I'm not a Pua.

& I didn't say I was some uber pua master cuz I fucked her in a week when she was looking for dick anyway.

I'm just asking how to break the friend tention so she'll fuck again.

& I'm not stressing. If I wanted I could fuck her whole head up, but I don't wanna go that route...

& how you gonna say not to associate with her, then date her in the same breath?

I need a 2nd opinion.
Author:  BadolzoN [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 1:12 pm ]
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Quote:
I'm not a Pua.

& I didn't say I was some uber pua master cuz I fucked her in a week when she was looking for dick anyway.

I'm just asking how to break the friend tention so she'll fuck again.

& I'm not stressing. If I wanted I could fuck her whole head up, but I don't wanna go that route...

& how you gonna say not to associate with her, then date her in the same breath?

I need a 2nd opinion.
Well if you're not a PUA don't question me.

I WOULD NOT associate with her, but if you HAVE to and ALREADY fucked her anyways then listen to what I have to say.

Now I'm not going to help you have a nice day hope your problem gets fixed.
Author:  ImNaShitFool [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 1:23 pm ]
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I don't need to be a pua to know bad advice from a punk kid who learned how to loose his virginity off a website.

I'll question you all I want, you aint special, I humbley asked a specific question & u got all condecending at the same time giving me some unrelated advice on low grade females & how I should act after I fuck her when Its the befoooreee part I'm asking about... pay attention.

I don't want your help, you gave me the wrong answer already.
Author:  BadolzoN [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 1:53 pm ]
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Quote:
I don't need to be a pua to know bad advice from a punk kid who learned how to loose his virginity off a website.

I'll question you all I want, you aint special, I humbley asked a specific question & u got all condecending at the same time giving me some unrelated advice on low grade females & how I should act after I fuck her when Its the befoooreee part I'm asking about... pay attention.

I don't want your help, you gave me the wrong answer already.
No, I just read the first few parts and gave you an answer, then finished reading it on 50% of my post and gave you the rest.

Hah edit it's all good man.
Author:  JeffL [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 2:54 pm ]
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First, cool it with BadolzoN, hes a really cool guy. I just recently signed up for an account on the forum, but i've been reading here for a few months already, and i've seen his stuff. Even if he weren't genuine, there is no need to act up here. He was trying to help, and you need to just chillax and see where people are coming from.

Now on your issue, I would say, don't focus too much on this girl if you want to get her. From the looks of it, you are already getting into the mindset that you MUST win this girl over = needy = bad. So then, i would just go out and date other chicks, let her know that you're not going to stick around and be her "OLDER BROTHER (god that fucking sucks doesn't it)," cuz one day, when she invites you to be her best man or w/e at the wedding, u are gonna get fucked up.

On the fucking part, it seems you already have alot of comfort built up, so the next step would be kino. Run a series of routines that will build up sexual tension and then see where things go. If you start making out again, and she stops, and she says, i don't wana fuck this relationship up, you can either:

1. freeze-out: fine, thats cool, Mystery's "You highjacked my brain, lets go watch Seinfield"
2. Taunt her a bit and say, yea, i don't wanna fuck this relationship up etiher, n then just keep making out.. ;)

hope this helps. and hope you learn how to accept people's views w/o flaming.
Author:  ImNaShitFool [ Mon Sep 21, 2009 10:54 am ]
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Lol do you really call it flaming?

Anyways.

She's confused, but I think it might be a matter of time.

She was flirting with me alllll night, on the phone & even knew it & tried stopping, but kept going... but she shot me down when I tried, so I just told her that she needs to stop playing around, & she said that she has like one foot on one side, one on the other (fucking me, and not fucking me) & I said yeahh well, your always on one side when its convienient for your, but on the opposite side when its convienient for me, & its confusing & dissapointing, pick a side already... of course... she still couldn't but w/e, I'll see what happens when we hang out.
Author:  BadolzoN [ Mon Sep 21, 2009 1:54 pm ]
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I would enter this situation without an outcome in mind.

Whenever you're around her, always be the fun guy she wants to hang out with, be her warm blanket, so when you're not around her, or turn your back, she'll feel the cold and wanna jump back in you. NEVER go into a set with an outcome in mind, always look at gaming a girl as having a fun time and you don't care what she thinks.

Never react, the person who reacts most is the person with lower value - lions don't huff and puff, they relax and let the wind blow on their bodies. You should be the same with her.

When you're kissing her, don't keep going and going and going. Kiss her, then back your head away (keep your body close to hers, but your head should periodically retract from hers.)

For example, kiss her deeply, then pull back and just look at her/ say something/ look at something on the wall/ tv/ etc (make out sessions)

Also, you can go in 40% and make her come 60%. It's usually 90 for you 10 for her, but if you're already making out then make her take more initiative.

Most guys think that since they're having sex/ making out with a girl they already won, but if you're too into it you can get buyer's remorse and have her question what your motives really are.

Kino escalate, I REALLY like the "You think our friendship will be ruined?" and keep making out with her one, hahaha.

It's kind of like telling a girl you're gay and when you have sex with her and she asks you "Weren't you gay" be like "I was"

Haha :)
Author:  KCBaller [ Mon Sep 21, 2009 6:15 pm ]
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Bro, its like this..... you gotta roll the dice (only if you are real confident and charming)

Dont talk to her for 3 days at all no matter what.

after three days say something like:

"ive been real busy trying to work and enjoy myself. Ive been going out with some new people.... (let her be curious about who these people are)

She will either have a bitch shield, complacent, or she will do anything to get your attention

If she has a bitch shield:

"If you had the opportunity to enjoy yourself, wouldnt you??? I have been thinking about you, but I needed time for myself."

She should feel guilty....

Then be like: "You know, you could cheer me up;) ....... If I flip this coin, whats the chances of me getting head lmao...."

If you can follow it up with:

"I hope you know I was just kidding. I dont think you can handle me now;)"

Then complement her, and close with:

"I kind of miss being with you. Hopefully we can be together again. But its your choice, not mine. Until then, Im going to enjoy my life."

That should be flawless...... tell me how it goes
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