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Author:  Dielawnn [ Wed Aug 12, 2009 3:01 am ]
Post subject:  Making conversations out of nothing!?

A lot of times I'll be texting a girl or IM'ing her and the conversation is just bland and she's not super engaged...what are some routines or stories you can use to jump start a conversation out of nothing? Please be specific

Author:  [Vegas] [ Wed Aug 12, 2009 4:00 am ]
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Well if the conversation begins to go dull or I see her attention is starting to be else where, I'll just keep it simple and say, "So tell me a story". She'll usually say "what?", "a story?", or "okay, about what?". No matter her response, I'll immediately follow it with "What's the craziest thing you've ever done?". I emphasize the word craziest when I say it too. Tease her about it or whatever it is you feel like doing after. This just allows you to take control of the conversation and it puts her in the mindset of being "that wild/adventurous girl" that you know she is at heart.

Author:  seduction82 [ Wed Aug 12, 2009 11:16 am ]
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Just say I have noticed something about you... then leave it go blank then when she asks say I'll tell you later if you're good then change the subject.

Author:  jeybeez [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 4:07 am ]
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If the conversation goes bland, talk to her like opening a set or target.

"I never told you this but you remind me of Lady Gaga..."

Some shit like that will immediately spark the conversation again.

Author:  BadolzoN [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 4:14 am ]
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Easiest way to spark up something is...

LOOK AT YOUR SURROUNDING.

Even if you're in a black box you can talk about how black isn't a color and what's your favorite color, oh red? Did you know red is the most eye catching color? (No, it's yellow but you can make up facts since most girls are stupid)

There, I solved your problem. ;)

Author:  xibuz [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 7:02 am ]
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Were apparently talking about texting or IMing here not talking to ppl in person.

^(You probably don't know who Lady Gaga really is, look it up, then you'll see why u shoul never tell someone she looks like lady gaga, cuz its a huge insult).

Anyways for texting or IMing you can bump the conversation by making a random but relatable and funny comment. If you use Twitter or update your Facebook/Myspace status a lot you'll become good at this, because u constantly make short comments or statements that you want people to react and respond to.

If youre texting or using mobile IM, describe things going on around the environment you're in, you could exaggerate to make it interesting.

But if youre OL chatting with a girl on a IM window/comment stream/IRC channel/chat group, theres the whole internet full of things you can bring up and share the link with her.

Author:  ace_theory [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 1:08 pm ]
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Easiest way to spark up something is...

LOOK AT YOUR SURROUNDING.

Even if you're in a black box you can talk about how black isn't a color and what's your favorite color, oh red? Did you know red is the most eye catching color? (No, it's yellow but you can make up facts since most girls are stupid)
There, I solved your problem. ;)
EPIC. I love that! I make up facts all the time.

Author:  ace_theory [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 1:11 pm ]
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Quote:
Easiest way to spark up something is...

LOOK AT YOUR SURROUNDING.

Even if you're in a black box you can talk about how black isn't a color and what's your favorite color, oh red? Did you know red is the most eye catching color? (No, it's yellow but you can make up facts since most girls are stupid)
There, I solved your problem. ;)
EPIC. I love that! I make up facts all the time.

Author:  Dielawnn [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 1:23 pm ]
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^(You probably don't know who Lady Gaga really is, look it up, then you'll see why u shoul never tell someone she looks like lady gaga, cuz its a huge insult).
Hahaha I definitely know who Lady Gaga is. I follow the music industry as my first passion, after this. I disagree that it would be a insult, because she's something like a sex symbol right now. I think it would be a great neg and it's perfect for me becuase I love talking about pop music haha.

Author:  Dielawnn [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 1:23 pm ]
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^(You probably don't know who Lady Gaga really is, look it up, then you'll see why u shoul never tell someone she looks like lady gaga, cuz its a huge insult).
Hahaha I definitely know who Lady Gaga is. I follow the music industry as my first passion, after this. I disagree that it would be a insult, because she's something like a sex symbol right now. I think it would be a great neg and it's perfect for me becuase I love talking about pop music.

Author:  xibuz [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 4:51 pm ]
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Image

This is what I meant.

Author:  BadolzoN [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 7:34 pm ]
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Exactly.

Make up facts.

#1 way to get a girl interested in you.

"Hey did you know... Fish have no penises? Instead they mate with wires or something?"

Haha or if you want to escalate the Kino you can say facts about her body and make her touch you (build comfort) first, THEN touch her in turn.

Author:  Dielawnn [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 10:16 pm ]
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Haha or if you want to escalate the Kino you can say facts about her body and make her touch you (build comfort) first, THEN touch her in turn.
I have a really hard time with kino cuz I'm always worried I'll touch her innapropriately or at the wrong time or the wrong way and itll make shit awkward as fuck.....whats some examples of 'facts about her body' that wudnt offend her?

Author:  Dielawnn [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 10:17 pm ]
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Haha or if you want to escalate the Kino you can say facts about her body and make her touch you (build comfort) first, THEN touch her in turn.
I have a really hard time with kino cuz I'm always worried I'll touch her innapropriately or at the wrong time or the wrong way and itll make shit awkward as fuck.....whats some examples of 'facts about her body' that wudnt offend her?

Author:  BadolzoN [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 5:51 am ]
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Haha or if you want to escalate the Kino you can say facts about her body and make her touch you (build comfort) first, THEN touch her in turn.
I have a really hard time with kino cuz I'm always worried I'll touch her innapropriately or at the wrong time or the wrong way and itll make shit awkward as fuck.....whats some examples of 'facts about her body' that wudnt offend her?
You have to make sure she likes you before you kino escalate.

Look to see if she throws any iois at you. (Like touching you or saying "I like your hair" etc)

One example would be Neil Strauss' game with the elbow and inner nerves.

I'd suggest you watch all of Mystery's bootcamp videos (not long prolly a total of 3 hours max?)

You'll learn a LOT

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