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Author:  Shadow Box [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 6:54 am ]
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I just spent 3 hours with this girl and had her back at my place to watch a movie on my laptop. We even stopped by an adult novelty store before we got here. For some reason I had trouble escalating once we were here. Sounds like friend zone, huh? Hope not, but whatever if it is it is. Let me know what you guys think.
Author:  TheJ [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 4:51 pm ]
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Coudn't escalate as in 'I didn't have the ballz to escalate' or coudn't escalate like 'I tried some moves but she just avoided the kino'.

First problem I would just say, don't over think it, just do it. Second one take it slow. Small touch of her elbow when you are talikng. Put your hand on her back when opening the door for her etc... small steps.

Cheers!
Author:  Shadow Box [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 6:51 pm ]
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Dude, to be honest I think I wussed out. The night was going to perfect and I think I built an expectation for it. lol, we stopped at X-Mart and bought her a sexy nightingale outfit. But whatever, we live and we learn.
Author:  TheJ [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 7:02 pm ]
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Dude, to be honest I think I wussed out. The night was going to perfect and I think I built an expectation for it. lol, we stopped at X-Mart and bought her a sexy nightingale outfit. But whatever, we live and we learn.
If you built expectation and didn't you could turn that in your favor. Makes you look non needy. Do you have some kino going?
Author:  Shadow Box [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 10:12 pm ]
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Yeah plenty of non-sexual kino. I've been approaching this one indirectly though so I'm having trouble knowing when to start slipping in the sexual kino. I've made her qualify herself a couple of times and I constantly have her jumping through hoops. Should I start directly using sexual kino or should I continue indirectly?
Author:  shytown45 [ Tue Aug 11, 2009 1:24 am ]
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you know if you already have this girl back at your place watching a movie on your laptop you should try watching porn together, especially if you guys stopped before to pick up a sexy little outfit.

but be extremely careful with this because if she is not comfortable with it she will never talk to you again, ask appropiate questions before and gauge her responses, and ask casually and start with something softcore, a lot of guys dont realize that porn turns girls on too, just dont seem eager or act like you do it all the time or youll come off as a pervert
Author:  TheJ [ Tue Aug 11, 2009 12:28 pm ]
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At this point I won't think you can screw it up... well maybe if you watch porn with her :roll: ...

Just do it. Caress the tip of her hair then her neck if she's not pushing you back go in for the kiss.
Author:  fratss [ Fri Aug 21, 2009 9:25 pm ]
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Dude, to be honest I think I wussed out. The night was going to perfect and I think I built an expectation for it. lol, we stopped at X-Mart and bought her a sexy nightingale outfit. But whatever, we live and we learn.
This happened to me once a long time ago, and it never happened again :)

This was a great moment to learn for you, because (I assume) THIS WON'T HAPPEN AGAIN!! Next time you'll remember this bummer and you WILL escalate. So take this as a great lesson. One of those situations that you must have been through to become a better ladiesman.

Escalate whenever you can.. If you go too fast for her, she'll let you know and you take a step back and start again.. 2 steps up, 1 step back... the basics ;) You'll be able to calibrate it after a while.

And you can get rid of those high expectations by dating more girls. In that way it'll be more easy to be indifferent to the outcome.
Author:  Pascal. [ Wed Sep 02, 2009 11:34 pm ]
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you should have goen for it man! oh well...

it doesnt sound like your in the friend zone, altho a few more trips to buy naughty outfits in which you never see her in may end up that way...

just drop her a txt saying "fancy coming round for another movie night blah blah blah, bring that outfit we bought as i never had a chance to apprciate it fully" or soem kinda hint along those lines...

if theres as much chemistry/kino as there sounds then it should an Fclose soon enough...

x
Author:  BombshellBrunette [ Thu Sep 03, 2009 1:47 pm ]
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when you watch a movie with the girl, inch in closer and go for kino!!!!! kino should escalate at this point. try to put your arm around her or at least massage her. do something! lol
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