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| Author: | Charlie Neptune [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 3:45 am ] |
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I have a great deal of good response from women by telling them I am currently dating several women at once. I tried this in my early days of game. I was lying through my teeth, of course. It has always seemed when one is in a relationship they seem to become much more attractive to women. I wanted to utilize this but not sound as if I was taken. As I lied about my many ladies I noticed a peaked intetests in a womans eyes. I tried to dissect the reaction to attack it's core (a loafty goal when dealing with women). Was I DHV by appearing as a desireable ladies man? Did they believe I really knew how to please women? Were they intigued by the freedom I offered them as a carefree bachelor? Or, as one friend put it, ever girl wants the pair of shoes the other girl has. I kept using that line until it actually became my reality. I eventually began, and continue to, date several at once. I stuck with saying I was but now it had a different spin. I was admitting it. I asked the best person I could about this reaction, my closest female friend Sara. "Girls like the fact that you are being honest and not bullshitting them". Good point. I find it's a mix of everthing I mentioned. As a lie and as truth I discovered it will peak their sexual interest in you if you appear as a lady pleaser. Some may like the laid-back carefree approach. Some will admire the honesty and confidence. I don't recommend lying with bad intentions. Real game is suppossed to improve your quality of interaction with women. As I tell the truth about my life now I attract women who like my approach to dating. The results are honest and fun relationships with like-minded women. Most remain my friend if things don't work out. Crazy! Honesty really is the best policy. But a few small lies along the way aren't so bad. |
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| Author: | Swoop [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 11:28 am ] |
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Sounds weird dude. You shouldnt tell women you are dating several woman at once, they should just be able to feel it from the way you act. Show not tell. You say this is working for you tho... Personally, I am not a big fan of lying. Liars are either A) shitty liars who give themselves away as total chumps, or B) good at lying, which is a pretty lame-ass card to carry... either way youre fucked. I will agree with your bottom line however, honesty is always the best policy (in most cases  )
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| Author: | Abdul-aAfc [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 11:39 am ] |
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Well you are obviously attracted to gullible bitches. Your post just smells of desperation to get what you want even if it means lying. You want us to agree with you but that aint gonna happen. You have to realise what you want to get from pu. There will come a time when you have to settle down and lying aint gonna get you anywhere. |
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| Author: | Charlie Neptune [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 12:44 pm ] |
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Yes, I said just that. Lying isn't right and it's something I havent done in years. As far as show vs tell, it isnt a canned line or something to brag about. I dont drop it when I meet someone. I did leave out certain details. When conversation leads in that direction, you are getting IOIs, I'm honest about dating several. Most men are scared to say that to women. It demonstrates confidence, honesty, and social worth. Yes, u should be showing these qualities at all times. The real interesting side was why this seemed to arouse women further after attraction had been well established. Is it a case by case basis? We know why certain established routines work through enough experimentation and analysis. Is this DHV, prizing. What makes it powerful. I have found strong sexual curiosity from this. I'm curious. |
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| Author: | Energy_ [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 5:33 pm ] |
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I know what you're sayin Charlie. There is an interesting paradox in the whole "Fake it til you make it"- way of gettin started. Very interesting.. and I think that was why Charlie wrote this post. |
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| Author: | Charlie Neptune [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 8:02 pm ] |
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Very true as well. I rushed that post and couldve worded it better. I was faking early on. I did make it & realized lying is a bad approach, but I was trying to learn something, not be malicious. Who hasnt stretched the truth as a horny kid? What always intrigued me was why they get more attracted when you are either taken or involved. I've seen it works as just another way to prize one self. Taken men are attractive because they have relationship credit. A man with several casual women has dating credit. A lot of women slept with me because they were confident I could handle a sexual relationship without becoming a clingy contol-freak. |
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| Author: | Energy_ [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:03 pm ] |
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I've seen some of this among my friends. I have a buddy who never has GF:s - its only one-night-stands all the way. And I think girls really understands what he's about. And they respect that. Myself on the other hand, is more into getting to know girls and they would sometimes go for him - just lookin to have some sex. Not really interested in someone who tries to get to know them. Its easy to overdo your game, I think, just because you have so many routines canned and ready to go. Sometimes its better to go for it right away, rather then slowing it down. Too much comfortbuilding will freak them out. This is something I personally have do get better at. See what a girl is after. Cause now when I think about I almost always asome I should go with a game that says Potential Boyfriend. I like your thougts on this! |
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