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Author:  Vinchenzo [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 7:35 pm ]
Post subject:  In the "just friends" zone..
Ok well here is the sit, I previously left a message about the strange circumstance where I met this girl before I left and then started to get to know her over messaging and phone.

I made a huge mistake about a few days ago when I mentioned sex and periodically I've been turning her off due to not being able to control the things I say.

She did promise to go out with me once when I got back home, but now she says she only wants to message with me. We had a huge fight yesterday because of it, and I was pretty annoyed that she started on me all because I brought up sex.

She's very emotionally frigid and claims she doesn't like getting attached, but at the same time she's the kind of girl who let someone touch her and not say anything about it.

In fact one story made me cringe, in which she said this old man started rubbing her feet (the guy was her friends dad) and she said she didn't know what to do. WTF, she also claimed that she didn't like it, but she talked about it as if she did. I know that when you touch a female certain things are released that allow their bodies to respond and force them to react sexually.

I was cringing, because I haven't even been out with her yet. Now she claims I am a creep and that she only wants to be friends at best. I don't think she feels this way, because she professed her feelings for me about a week ago and then quickly revoked them the next day. I think this is due to the fact she hasn't seen me yet and is expecting a lot more to go with the feelings. I think it was bad timing on both our parts. I really am not giving up on this because I am very competitive and I want her...

How can I get out of the "just friends zone"?
Author:  alphaguy [ Sat Aug 01, 2009 8:05 pm ]
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im no expert, but I believe you're coming off as a bit too needy here? She's probably sensing the fact that you're struggling to get to her positive side and it may be what's turning her away from you? I believe there are some things you can do to make this a little bit better.

Though I'll probably be corrected later on, at least I can give you my 2 cents on the situation

I say you should attempt to cut communication with this girl.

I say this for 2 reasons.

1) IF SHE CARES AT ALL RIGHT NOW, she might attempt to re-initiate conversation with you . That in turn, is at least an IOI, and you can take things further.

2) If she doesn't and you're still interested, you can let some time pass and start over. show you're a changed person, and not make the same mistake twice.

What you should do after that, uh.. I'll leave it for the pros to help you :)

Good luck
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