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| Author: | Legion [ Sun Jul 12, 2009 1:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Remembering a girl's name will score you big points |
Apparently, the sound of a person's name is the most pleasant sound to that person - in any language - as long as it's not overdone like some sales pitch. Do people ever forget your name? Doesn't that annoy you? Recently I was in a grocery store and I paused to text on my phone. Someone walked by me and say "Oh hi Legion!". I looked up, saw a girl I knew from about 3 or 4 years back - I'm thinking, what the fuck is her name? - and just replied "Oh hey, how are you, how's it going?" It was pretty obvious I didn't remember her name. I felt like a prick. Two seconds later, I remembered it. But I've been in this situation too - where I'll see someone I haven't talked to in ages and I'll remember their name, but they'll look at me and sort of stall/stutter, as my name isn't coming to them. Sometimes, to avoid this, I won't mention that person's name, and just say "hey". |
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| Author: | Voodoo.Fresh [ Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:59 pm ] |
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even better, find a nickname this works even more wonders. btw you should read that "how to win friends and influence people" book, all sorts of lessons about human relations. |
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