Well I was at a party at a apartment a few nights ago and I started talking to this girl outside who was smoking around alot of other people that were smoking too. I think that she was a little drunk but could still hold an intelligent conversation. Anyways this is how it went down, not word for word:
I asked her her name and we had a little chit chat about the party, then she asked me where I went to school, and what I was planning on doing. I told her that I wasn't sure and I was just going to community college to find something that I was interested in, then I asked about her. she told me that she is going into psychology, then I did a little DHV about how I actually read a couple of things on body language and she asked what her body language was saying, so I told her that the way she blew her smoke showed that she was a confident and positive person. She ate it up and was showing quite a few IOI's and touching me. Then she started talking about where she worked and I said "why are we talking about work that's boring, and I'm sorry to say your starting to sound like a boring person, to redeem yourself you gotta tell me 3 interesting things that you plan on doing this summer" I don't quite remember what they were but I made sure to Neg a bit then Kino and she seemed to respond. Then I went, "you look like your tired of standing wanna sit down somewhere" and since she was next to the door she led the way to the dance floor where there was a couch that we sat on, and there was someone that she knew and just started talking to and I was kinda out of the conversation and it was loud to begin with. So after a few minutes she pretty much just laid there with me awkwardly trying to talk, and she left to go to the bathroom and then after that I could get her alone and cockblocked at every turn.
Is there anything that I could have done to make a stronger connection and even get a k-close? any help would be much appreciated.
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