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Author:  Newbie100 [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 2:03 am ]
Post subject:  Stuck after I open... A2 problems
I'm actually bit stuck after I open.
I have a bad habit of opining only hb8+ or maybe maybe hb7
Yesterday me and my buddy went out to this bar... there was a hb8 hiredgun(maybe ever hb9) which sell shots in tubes anyway she even looked at me like shes interested (after I took one shot and was talking to my friends she was looking at me)
However, I knew that if I would come to talk to her like an AFC she will loss interest.
After a while she came again when we were sitting at the bar and ask me if I want a shot (she did this with everybody) so I tried to game her I was like :
ME "are you trying to get me drunk here?! I already took a shot from you earlier."
HB "Maybe." she said with a naughty face and added "well I will take a shot with you if you will" (again it's the hiredgun's routine with everybody) and took a tub which seem to be filled with water
ME "LOL It's water!"
HB "No it's not..."
ME "and no I won't take another one thank you. But tell me, is it the real color of your hair or do you color it?"
HER "Yes It's totally natural."
Here I just got paralyzed by her beauty and I mumbled "I was just curious, don't worry it look just OK" but she could hear what I said.

Then it seemed like she stayed a little bit to see if I got anything more to say and I just got stuck and didn't say anything cuz I was just paralyzed and my heart felt like it was going to explode so she left.

I just don't know what to say after I open, I know I have to tell some DHV stories but I just cant write even one and even if I have a story I don't know how to get to the point to tell it.
another problem I got is that I don't know how much time A2 shall last!
I knew I don't have a lot of time with her and didn't even know if I got any time for A3 so I thought maybe I should ask for her number just after A2 cuz she was working... I looked for IOI's but obviously I wasn't supposed to get them after this period of time.

Can you please help me???
Author:  Newbie100 [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 11:20 am ]
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I wanted to add that I thought to ask her where is she from and then after she answers to say:
"OMG!! really?! wow, but it won't work between us; last week some girl started talk to me and she was from there too... all the girls from **** are too much of a good girls... you're not a good girl are you?!"
but I didn't wanted to ask "where are you from?" cuz that is so AFC.

Today I thought about that and got an idea about asking her right after the "don't worry it looks just fine" line this: "So, what is special about you?" (Mystery) then if she says something like "haha you will have to find out" then neg with "oh actually I don't really care I was just being polite" but then again I stuck with nothing to say.
I thought about maybe to say something like this "It won't work between us, my last gf was a waitress and every Saturday night she couldn't go out because she had to work she wasn't much of fun. Are you fun?!"

Please give me some tips!
Author:  Energy_ [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 11:29 am ]
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A lot of times I use the line:
-You know, my ex-girlfriend actually...
(whatever she does and make her know
that your ex was probably better or more goodlooking or whatever without
bragging or comming off sad that you miss her...)

....worked as a bartender,
she moved to russia last year. Maybe you should go there to
and see what happens when you try to serve water to a russian.
Hardcore people.
You know Vodka means water in russian dont you?

her: bla bla, haha..

You:
(This is someonelses stuff.. dont know who..)
Isn't kind of a paradox though to work in a bar?
I mean you meet all theese people, but when you
think about it, you dont really meet anyone at all
cause your on the other side of the counter.
I think your beautiful, but I would never waste my time
trying to get your number while buying a drink from someone.
Hi... Im (your name).
Author:  Newbie100 [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 11:43 am ]
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I heard the paradox thing too. But was so nerves and didn't thought about it at that time.
Thanks for replying and I hear you... I should have said my ex was a waitress.
And she is a shooter girl not a bartender.
What do you say about this line : "You know, it just won't work between us, my last gf was a waitress and every Saturday night she couldn't go out because she had to work at *** bar. She wasn't that much of fun. Are you fun?!"?
Author:  Energy_ [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 12:11 am ]
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Hey man!

I just got home from a wild night...
Still pretty drunk so excuse any spelling and etc.
I think you should use the line you came up.
My spontanius would be:
"To bad you are working every weekend, you wount get the chance to know me."
or maybe
"I wouldnt call myself a guy who likes bartenders, but somehowe I find it very
attractive. To bad your a "shooter". But you probably have a great personality.. You look cute and friendly"

Im goin to bed.
Dont call me in the morning cause I'll be dead!
Author:  Don D. Flow [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 3:57 am ]
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I would say you should focus on your inner game. You should have talked to her as if she was one of your friends. She probably saw you as a naturally "cool" guy when you were talking/hanging with your friends. You want to learn on how to block out her beauty and just talk to her as if she was a friend, it would have given results. Unless you started acting AFC, but still saying something is better than saying nothing (unless your being AFC).
Author:  Newbie100 [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 8:25 am ]
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I thought about what I could say when I stuck and at this very situation.
A Mini Cold Read like one of those: "Wow you look tired, it most be exhausting to go back and forth to all those people and to keep your smile for hours."
But I think it might be a bad MCR cuz it's a bad one(you are tired; your work suck)
However if I continue it with a funny mini DHV story it might be ok like :"It reminds me my ex who was a bar waitress she smiled so much her smile muscles got sprained so every time I made her laugh she was like "haha oh it hurts haha""

Bishop Don D. Flow, it might be very easy for you to say "just talk to her as if she was a friend" but when I'm not in the hook point yet it is very hard for me cuz I don't got much of experience. I know what do you mean but some tips can help.

Energy_, I like the line "I wouldnt call myself a guy who likes bartenders, but somehowe I find it very
attractive. To bad your a "shooter". But you probably have a great personality.. You look cute and friendly" it's just brilliant! and I won't call you because I don't have your phone number and in addition it would be an outside call anyway :P
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