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| Author: | alpha_seeker [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 7:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | need help with building rapport |
Hey guys well I'm going to be meeting up with this chick this saturday; not by myself, but I know I'm going to get some one on one time with her and I was wondering what are some of your best advices for building rapport in a fun way. Oh and I barely know this chick, so topics of conversation can be endless. Thanks for your replies ahead of time. |
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| Author: | Bandersnatch [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | rapport |
a good way to build rapport between u and her is to keep whatever convo there is flowing, get her talking and keep her talking, girls like to talk, the best way to keep her talking is ask questions about a specific thing she said, or make little funnies about something she said and then bring up a new topic that directly relates to her. depending on how much you know about her you can say a range of things like if ou knw where shes from or where she went to school or if she saw a particular band last week you can say something about it in a way that makes it seem like you didnt know that about her, and then when you say it she will be like:omg i used to live there, or, omg thats my favorite food too, or omg i love that song you were there too? if you dont know anything about her say something about what she has said or is wearing or something, if she is wearing cowboy boots, u:i didnt know u went to rodeos hb:blah blah cows blah blah texas u:oh you know about blah blah texas, i used to have the same bla blah boots but lost them inblah blah texas basically if you keep her intrested in everything you say(it doesnt have to be amazing or breathtaking) you will learn about her, get to know her, thusly building rapport, once you know her then it will be easy to find something to talk about bc you will know what she likes to talk about or what she likes or whatever, its all about her, whatever she likes or whatever |
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| Author: | kcdclan [ Sat Jun 13, 2009 10:32 am ] |
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She isn't going to be talking if she isn't comfortable.... You have to be the cool guy to come up and be the alpha and she should get a lil mor comfortable with you. if she starts afc you asking questions over and over like Where do you work where do you life How long have you lived here. Who do you live with Where you go to school And keeps asking questions then she is nervous and you need to comfort her. alpha male has no problem kino and is always doing it. so kino it builds comfort. Talk about how cool awesome you are all the fun stuff you do.... |
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