Depends why. If it's so she can (genuinely) go to the toilet, why not?
"OK, but if you're not out in *look at watch* 87.2 seconds, this drink is MINE!
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| Author: | *cookie* [ Fri May 29, 2009 9:35 pm ] |
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hey its starting to bug me. i need a quick solution to quick problem. too many times im being giving the hoop "please can you hold my drink a second" from women and i try not to jump through the hoop but ive not got a good enough response. please could you share some responses i could use when im next asked this. cheers, cookie. |
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| Author: | Cosmo Brown [ Sat May 30, 2009 2:58 pm ] |
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I am always afraid of this happening myself. I guess it depends a lot on what your style is. I mean, what works for your DeAngelo style cocky & funny PUA might not be the appropriate method for a more laid back kind of guy. How do you play the game? |
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| Author: | SUB-ZERO [ Sat May 30, 2009 7:47 pm ] |
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"Whats in it for me?" This is the best way to take back frame control when and HB is trying to get you to hold her drink, watch her purse, save her spot etc. That way you can still do her small task, but now she will feel like she must return some sort of favor. |
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| Author: | illgetthenext1 [ Sun May 31, 2009 12:46 am ] |
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just drink it and walk away. they will come find you. |
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| Author: | Sir Thomas Moore [ Sun May 31, 2009 2:02 pm ] |
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Quote: "Whats in it for me?"
That's gold. Much better than what I did when an HB7 handed me her glass and said "get rid of this for me", which was to instantly drop it on the floor at her feet. Still see her but we'll never be friends...lol.
This is the best way to take back frame control when and HB is trying to get you to hold her drink, watch her purse, save her spot etc. That way you can still do her small task, but now she will feel like she must return some sort of favor. |
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| Author: | maximillionaire [ Sun May 31, 2009 3:18 pm ] |
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Quote: just drink it and walk away. they will come find you.
haha if not you had a drink for free.
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| Author: | DirtyDreams [ Sun May 31, 2009 3:52 pm ] |
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You can still hold the drink. That you always say "I wont" or something like that is not good. It isnt big deal |
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| Author: | Drakelet [ Sun May 31, 2009 8:00 pm ] |
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Depends why. If it's so she can (genuinely) go to the toilet, why not? "OK, but if you're not out in *look at watch* 87.2 seconds, this drink is MINE! "
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| Author: | oldrydon [ Mon Jun 01, 2009 8:08 am ] |
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im buying into the ''drink it theory'' big time. uve just got to be a bit smarter if theres a whole pint or a large glass of wine, if u've got it in you too see it off in a few seconds go for it, otherwise that drink could of send you over the edge and instead of her finding you she could be saving your drunk ass!! |
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| Author: | BenedictMSmith [ Mon Jun 01, 2009 8:35 pm ] |
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smirk and say "I'm not a waiter." |
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| Author: | FelterX [ Tue Jun 02, 2009 6:42 pm ] |
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I agree with illgetthenext1 walk away and go open another set while drinking it, when she comesto look for you, you will look attractable in both girls eyes. (walking away convey's that your reserving your value). |
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| Author: | [Vegas] [ Tue Jun 02, 2009 7:43 pm ] |
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When ever a girl asks me to hold their drink at a club or party, I just say something like "Alright, well then we are playing Where Is Waldo. I'll be with my friends and you can find me when you get back." If she doesn't come to find you, then you just got a free drink and it's time to move on. If she comes to find you, then she walks into you having social proof joking around with your friends and having fun. You can then isolate by saying "Hey you're back! Let's move over to here so we can talk" and then you grab her arm/hand/whatever and guide her somewhere. |
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| Author: | Baby Face Assasin [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 5:29 am ] |
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i like the "whats in it for me?" & "come find me when ur done" lines. I usually say something along the lines of "ok but hurry up or i'll drink it". I think a combination of those 3 followed by leaving to rejoin ur friends as she goes to the bathroom(or where ever shes going to) would definately let her know that ur no ones bitch & u can handle yourself. |
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| Author: | [Vegas] [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 7:14 am ] |
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Quote: I think a combination of those 3 followed by leaving to rejoin ur friends as she goes to the bathroom(or where ever shes going to) would definately let her know that ur no ones bitch & u can handle yourself.
Well that but also it would just be awkward to be standing there by yourself "twiddling your thumbs" so to speak just waiting for someone who may or may not come back. Instead of being awkward you need to be socializing whether it be rejoining your friends or opening another set. You aren't there to be a servant or a clown, so don't be one.
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| Author: | trixsta [ Wed Jun 03, 2009 1:18 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: "Whats in it for me?"
That's gold. Much better than what I did when an HB7 handed me her glass and said "get rid of this for me", which was to instantly drop it on the floor at her feet. Still see her but we'll never be friends...lol.This is the best way to take back frame control when and HB is trying to get you to hold her drink, watch her purse, save her spot etc. That way you can still do her small task, but now she will feel like she must return some sort of favor. I might do that sometime, chuck it across the room and say "done". Or just drink it and hand her the glass back. |
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