Here is a move I thought up mid-situation, and it worked great, I call it the ISPY routine - give it a shot!
Hey guys,
So I was at this girl's place the other night, and she was in the process of moving, and we were watching a movie. During the movie, my eyes were drawn to a nearby book she had lying out, and it was one of those old ISPY books from a while back, you know, the ones with the mass cluttered pages where you have to search for 10 small things within. Anyway, the movie ended, and I still needed to transition into the physical because she wasn't really vibing the vibe
, so in a measure of quick wit, I suggested we crack open her old ISPY book and give it a whirl. This worked out great. It is easy to do kino escalation with this because you two have to sit so close to both look over the pictures. You can also very easily neg on dumb stuff she'll do (like make mistakes, etc..) Anyway, I was able to smoothly transition after ISPY, it really helped set the mood. You guys should try this, and just make up some BS story about why you have an ISPY book lying around the house (you won it as a prize for winning the elementary school spelling bee - etc) play it up and enjoy it. Plus, its a great book to read for a throw back if you're just wanting to have fun.
Enjoy,
Vibe~