Ok, Well there’s this girl that I work with. She is an HB7 in my eyes but by far the hottest and funniest chick on staff (prize of most co-workers eyes). I work at a convenience store and there are a lot more guy workers then girl workers, all around the same age.
Well, I’ve been gaming the HB7 and I get all the signs indicating that she is interested. My problem is how do I deal with other guys (some of them have gf’s too) constantly hitting on her. It seems like all the other guys are trying to get in on what I’m doing. Whenever I make her laugh and get her all excited its like they all swoop in and try and take away from my thunder..real dick moves.
Like yesterday, I was working my game, and threw out some playful banter and got her laughing her ass off. Some of my co-workers just start staring at us and laughing, then the HB7 was like what are they laughing at (she’s kinda insecure). Her whole thought process went from enjoying herself with me to thinking about what they were saying about her. Really ruined the moment badly.
I really view this as an inner game/co-worker issue but I don’t know how to handle it. Me and the HB7 are not dating really, and there is no commitment. Its just kinda frustrating when you start to like a girl, and she is constantly being hit on, in front of you, by numerous other guys. It seems like there is stuff that she only does with me, to indicate that she is interested (nicknames, touching, playfulness, always saying “hi” whenever she see's me, etc.). But whenever I give another girl some attention, she’s all over another guy touching him and stuff in front of me, getting him interested in her. How do I overcome these inner feelings of being jerked around, how do I handle this situation??
Of course I never let my emotions be seen on the outside, I stay cool and unaffected/un-needy, but this is tough. Advice?
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