Hi there all. I open this theme thats continue by the one in opener section. All Point of this is to collect some good advises for club 'game' and systemize at one place.
I will be very appreciate to eveyone of you if you write how continue your game after the opener . I will start with one example and will be very appreciate to you if you replay too
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This is one variant how u can continue your game and move to kiss close. I like it and it is field tested . / it is a copy from a book and there are and explanations/
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"You seem like you might be adventurous, are you?"
If they say "yes" (which they often times do, and if they don't, then l am not
interested in them anyways), then l say:
"good because if you weren't l was going to walk away because l am only
friends with adventurous people...And even though you might be adventurous,
I don't know if this friendship is going to work out because l am not sure you
can handle me."
They will usually respond by reaffirming that they are adventurous or saying,
"I don't know if you can handle me?"
I usually will respond to this by saying: "What's the most adventurous thing
you have done in the last year".
After they tell me, I might say something such as: "I was starting to think l was
a little much for you...but maybe this will work out"
Then l might say: "Are you spontaneous?"
If they say yes, then l might shoot back with: "Good, then we can hang out.
But l don't know how spontaneous you are yet, so l can't introduce you to my
cool friends because they might think you are a square and l wouldn't want
you to embarrass me in front of them" (the key is to do this in a kind of tongue
and cheek way. If you are too intense about it, you risk scaring the girl away--
especially if she is frigid).
Then challenge them by asking them either what makes them spontaneous or
by asking them what the most spontaneous thing they have done in the last
year is.
If they give me a sexual response to either being adventurous or
spontaneous, then l can skip the next step. But if they don't give me a sexual
response (this is actually kinda rare) I will ask them about the craziest place
they ever had sex.
I am sure that some of you are thinking: how can he do this so early on in the
conversation? The reason "I can" is that l have already gotten them to commit
to being adventurous and spontaneous, so, through the principle of
commitment and consistency, they have to be consistent with what they have
committed to. If they act prudish, then l will accuse them of lying about being
adventurous and spontaneous.
Once they tell you the craziest place they ever had sex, they will usually ask
you the same question, to which you better come up with a story that is even
more adventurous than theirs (Remember, the subtext you are trying to get
across is that you are looking for an adventurous girl, but no matter how
adventurous she is, she is not quite as adventurous as you.).
Then l might talk about kissing. Then l might say to her: if you were in kissing
school, what grade would your teacher give you as a kisser? They usually will
say an A (beautiful women want to sustain their value as beautiful women).
Then l kiss them. Why does this work? This works because l am challenging
three things she has committed to being true about who she is: How
adventurous she is, how spontaneous she is, and how good of a kisser she is.
If she does not live up to the challenge, she will come across as a liar--and
women hate having the reputation of being a liar.
--------------------------------------------by Swinggcat-------------