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| Author: | Puzzler [ Thu May 14, 2009 12:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Got a servers number, now what? |
Hey guys, whats goin on..first time poster, long time reader I was at a restaurant last week with a few buddies (great social proof). We were boisterous, confident, and i was being checked out by one of the waitresses, probably a 9. When it was time to go, I confidently walked up to her and with a smile said, "Hey you're gunna be around this summer right? " Yeah" "Well we should go for a drink sometime" (Flustered) "Ok sure" She then proceeded to give me her number and I initiated a txt about 2 hours later. We txt'd back and forth about 5-6 times before she abruptly stopped to txt me. I sent her a txt two days later, "Whats up?" but nothing in response. I guess what my question is, what could this mean? Also what are some better openers for a scenario like that. I've taken home 9's and 10's from the bar but have a tough time picking chicks up during the day. Any ideas? Thanks guys. |
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| Author: | davidj [ Thu May 14, 2009 1:56 am ] |
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1st. I would recomend never initiating another text saying "whats up?" Girls do this to talk to men, not vice versa. side note: "never reply with whats up with you" either. 2nd, On a pickup like yours, with no rapport just the attraction, from personal experience i would recommend setting a day two within text 2-3 of first contact Be much more direct with a pickup like that. SHE DOESN"T KNOW WHO YOU ARE. SHE'sPROB SHY She doesn't know you, just your a good looking guy she met while she was WORKING. she doesn't want to text you like a high school girl. She obviously wanted to meet you. Try texting her saying your going out (or whatever) and invite her. Try again in a few weeks if no answer. |
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| Author: | Puzzler [ Thu May 14, 2009 3:53 pm ] |
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Appreciate it thanks. What's a good way to initate through texting then? |
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| Author: | Teen [ Thu May 14, 2009 9:11 pm ] |
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if i were you, i'd say 'you still owe me that drink, meet me *location* at *time*?' usually works for me, good luck man. -teen |
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| Author: | BxBwoy [ Thu May 14, 2009 11:23 pm ] |
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Quote: 1st. I would recomend never initiating another text saying "whats up?" Girls do this to talk to men, not vice versa. side note: "never reply with whats up with you" either.
Great advice man!!
2nd, On a pickup like yours, with no rapport just the attraction, from personal experience i would recommend setting a day two within text 2-3 of first contact Be much more direct with a pickup like that. SHE DOESN"T KNOW WHO YOU ARE. SHE'sPROB SHY She doesn't know you, just your a good looking guy she met while she was WORKING. she doesn't want to text you like a high school girl. She obviously wanted to meet you. Try texting her saying your going out (or whatever) and invite her. Try again in a few weeks if no answer. |
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