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| Author: | pr0lab [ Fri May 01, 2009 4:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Upcoming first date and I have a LOT of question |
Hey folks, I need your advice from you guys, I have a lot of questions !!! I just schedule a date with a girl at my college. so I offer her to go to get some coffee. now I have a list of question of what should I do next: 1. Call her on Sun ? 2-3 days after to set up an exact time ? 2. Where to go ? Starbucks or find some cool local coffee shop ? 3. When should I go, evening or day time? 3.1 Evening - Bigger chance to kiss her at the evening. 3.2 Day time - more relax, we can seat outside which is nicer. 4. Should I thinking about kissing her at the first date, she is 19 I am 23, I have no problem but how would she react when I am coming on her like that? 5. I heard DDA says "two steps forward, one step back" to create attraction. at this case, how would I do it? I have nothing to take back ? 6. Do you guys have a link for rapport and attraction technics material online, for the first date? Sorry to make it long I will really appreciate your input ! Thanks |
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| Author: | super natural [ Sat May 02, 2009 2:07 am ] |
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well if you wait to school you will run the risk of clashing time schedules. go to a coffee shop with a couch if possible. Tables make it too "daty" and hard to physically escalate. Either day or evening would be good. I personally like evenings better hell yes! kiss her on the first date thats what she wants! What I would suggest is try to kino before like touch her shoulder, hold hands, play with the hair, then kiss. If you dont kino in someway then go for the kiss you will prolly build too much anxiety to kiss her. Try to have something fun planned after too maybe at your place? for two steps forward he means to physically escalate and each time take a step back. Hold hands then take it away. Play with her hair then stop. Kiss her then pull away and stop. you dont need attraction material here. She is already attracted to you otherwise she wouldnt have given you the number or going on the date with you. You just need to build comfort now. Just talk about what your passionate about, what you do for fun, and find out things about her as well. Hopes this helps |
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| Author: | SirKonstantine [ Sat May 02, 2009 4:51 am ] |
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1. I call them about 36 hours after the # close. After that I forget who they are :-/ 2. You should go to the place where there are cool things for you to do near by. 3. Evening, because sex is a thing people usually do at night 4. Yes Kiss her 5. You have the quote totally wrong. its about kino. 6. You can do the cube to get an emotional connection but comfort game is about sharing your stories. Also, qualify the girl too. Find qualities you want in a girl and screen her on that. she is 19, it should be easy for you. you have about 20% more life experience then she does. |
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