i go to the gym on a regular basis, about 5 days a week. im a pretty big guy who definitely belongs in the gym. (19 inch arms, 345lb bench at under 210lbs, ect. you get the idea) i would never approach a chick in the gym, and never even consider approaching a chick upon my arrival to the place. after my workout would be the best time if there is no realistic other option.
id recommend you do not approach her while shes working out, specially if shes with a trainer. trainers cost a large chunk of change, and unlike the dumb strippers where i lift, your target is obviously there with a purpose, not for social hour.
most training sessions last for an hour, so if you see her attempt to gauge when her appointment (they usually start on the hour ie: 2pm, 3pm, 4pm, ect) began. then figure in about an hour she will be done, while being as NON obvious as possible. Act like your into your workout and dont notice her (head phones rockin out, talk to somebody/a gym partner when shes coming, use a squat rack thats pushed into a corner) just anything to make her not realize youre there at all. 9 times out of 10 after a workout she will go to the water fountain or some other common postworkout gathering place (if she goes immediately into the locker room, waiting to buy something from the juice bar works too). as sneaky as possible walk over (waterfountain situation) or look at her/get her attention (juicebar or common postworkout location situation) and act surprised in a sense to see her and id say something like 'this is the second time ive ran into you here, you must like it as much as me. i noticed you had a trainer last time, could you tell me which is the best one to choose, how to get in touch with him, blah blah blah. ' or something along those lines.
i would NOT neg at the gym, specially in your situation. and i wouldnt even try to run any serious game at first. more of less just get her talking. then depending on the situation go into a gym related opener. one that seems like a good option is complaining about the gym. " is too hot, smells, is too cold, is too busy, the machines suck, the people are stupid, ect" and acting like it is unpleasant while clearly making it obvious your there all the time. idk if that makes perfect sense, but when i talk to a chick who i can tell obviously works out i use lines like that. it has worked 100% of the time for me, mostly because of perfect, cocky-funny type delivery. then again, this works well for me because im a gym rat and its blatantly obvious i workout on a regular basis.
if that wont work for you, get creative. you want it to seem like you are going to the gym on a regular basis, but whatever you do, do NOT mention anything about 'i want to be bigger or stronger' or anything about 'the other guys' in the gym, unless it is about them being annoying to you for talking up space or a machine you wished to use. the gym/working out is one of the best tools for DHV'ing. use that to your advantage
hope i helped
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. You cannot even assume that she is able to recognize you at the gym - she may have been uncomfortable because she didn't remember you from the party. If she only met you once before at a party, you have to keep in mind she may not be able to place you.