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Author:  hurley509 [ Thu Apr 16, 2009 3:06 am ]
Post subject:  HOW TO REINITIATE AFTER A FREEZEOUT?

hey

I am giving a girl im seeing afew days to miss me. im purposely staying off of msn and im not msging her randomly, just wondering... after a few days, lets say 6 or 7, how do i reinitate? its only day 3 now.. and im assuming she will contact me before day 5 or 6, but if not.. what should i do?

Author:  Fu$$ [ Thu Apr 16, 2009 6:38 am ]
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Its ten times harder to reattract a girl that you've lost than get another girl...

Just choose between ten girls x one girl.

She wasnt interested at all, just give up. Except if this girl hotter than Pamela Anderson 8).

Author:  hurley509 [ Thu Apr 16, 2009 7:09 am ]
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i doubt the problem is that shes not interested, i think she is... im doing this as an attempt to keep her guessing really.

Author:  Fu$$ [ Thu Apr 16, 2009 7:16 pm ]
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Then you must act normally, as nothing really happened, and you just "remembered" her. Be careful with the subcommunication: please dont make she thinks you're chasing her!

Fu$$

Author:  Motane [ Sun Apr 19, 2009 8:23 am ]
Post subject:  IM her about something cool

I've been through this recently: took her out, kiss-closed but she didn't reciprocate much of the kino, then she did not initiate any communicate and even ignored a voice message I left inviting her to hang out.

Here's how I fixed it:

I IM'ed her randomly a few days later about something cool that I found online (if you want examples, do a Delicious search for the tag 'cool').

To my surprise, she replied that she got a voice message but couldn't hear it because of the noise (true, I left it while driving).

The lesson is: don't assume she's not interested, unless she keeps ignoring you repeatedly. To paraphrase Brad P:
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Women like men to pursue them. If she says "no", stop, but *don't beat yourself up about it*. Continue hanging out, keep having fun, then try again later. Women don't really mean "no" most of the time; it's just that they have an internal clock as to how you are supposed to advance, and often it lags behind reality. But women respect men to take the initiative. So if she ignores you, ask her out. Women enjoy the pursuit, the chase, the drama, the romance, the sexual tension.

Women don't find it disrespectful if you make a move. They find it exciting to have a chance to tell you no, or to slow down etc. Example: guy who kept getting back at it after she said "no". She told him: "You know what I like about you? That when I tell you "no", you're not bothered by it. Other guys act just like big babies. I like that you're not a big baby".

Women know that they need to put their foot down. It's very natural for men to pull forward, and for women to stall them. It's the dance of dating. You try to move forward, she tries to move you back.

Author:  hurley509 [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 11:29 pm ]
Post subject:  hmm

she ended up telling me she was seeing someone else... i spent alot of time with and on her, which sucks pluys i really liked her.

Author:  Maf-PbC [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 2:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: hmm

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she ended up telling me she was seeing someone else... i spent alot of time with and on her, which sucks pluys i really liked her.
Then she wasnt truly interested, theres your final page in the book....nothing you can do but move on.

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