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Author:  Sideler [ Thu Apr 16, 2009 3:06 am ]
Post subject:  Stuck after getting numbers
I've gotten about 10 numbers in the last month and I've only fooled around with one of them, and I'm loosing interest in that one.

The one I'm on right now I knew a little (HB 9.5). She's hot, smart, and has her shit together. A rarety. She was out with 5 guys and I got her away from 4 of them (she was the other guys ride, a friend of a friend who was new to Miami). The three of us had drinks and I made both of them laugh. The other guy tried telling a story and forgot it, and never remembered. She e-mailed me the next week.

I called and asked her out. She was leaving town for 2 weeks. I called 2 1/2 weeks later and she didn't respond for a week. When she did she asked to meet out for lunch. We ended up sitting next to people we know so I didn't say some of the things I wanted to. At lunch she said she didn't have anything planned for the weekend. When I called the next day she answered, and said she would get back to me about the weekend that night. She didn't. I e-mailed her and suddenly she had plans for the weekend. It sounds like she is telling me she's not interested? She didn't offer another time to get together. Should I give up on this one? Oh, my friend dated her two months ago. It's not weird for us but could be for her. I feel like my middle game was weak. I never got her in a situation where I had her alone. Anything I could have done different?

Sideler
Author:  fealinlucky [ Thu Apr 16, 2009 7:40 pm ]
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Ah...
sounds like this one may be in the LJBF zone.

its hard to say, but it looks like after building initial attraction you logistically coulnt build comfort fast enouph before she went out of town.. by the time she got back in town the best you got was lunch... only thing I might have done would have been to try to bounce after lunch somewhere that was easier to re-build attraction... go for a walk.. swing to the mall... something fun that you could use to start the kino back up.

as for what to do now...
best I can think of is to put it on ice for a few weeks... and then come back and invite her out to something your already doing.... and try to start back from square one.

JMT,
Lucky
Author:  kranked [ Thu Apr 16, 2009 9:28 pm ]
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You turned her into the prize by chasing her, should be the other way around. So i'd say you have probably LJBF'd yourself.

Forget about her and move on. If she re-initiates go for it just don't forget, your the prize make her come after you.
Author:  Hypnotix [ Fri Apr 17, 2009 8:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Stuck after getting numbers
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When she did she asked to meet out for lunch.

She didn't offer another time to get together.

Sideler
Dude....reread these these 2 key sentences from your post and tell me whats wrong w/ them....Ready...Go!!!












Figured it out yet? Hopefully, you did but in case you didnt....why are you waiting for her to offer to go somewhere w/ you.....You are essentially waiting for her to ask you out....Yea you said hey lets do somthing but you never set any firm plans...Next time you talk to her say 'Hey Im heading out to xxxx place at xxxx time....with xxxxx friend...would you like to join me?'

You need to take charge and make firm plans of something to do...If she declines, its no big deal you were heading out there anyway.....Her loss, not yours....Another time invite her to hang along with you to something else....She declines drop her....

Point being, you need to take charge and set up the logisitics....nothing for her to worry about except dressing up all sexy for you....You lead the way...
Author:  Maf-PbC [ Fri Apr 17, 2009 3:15 pm ]
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Kid is caught in fucking limbo....hate that shit dude been there...

Best thing you can do is just follow the basic format:
Imply some basic interest by trying to get her to meet up with you wherever(hang out, date, lunch etc.) If she declines, leave it be. Hate to tell you woman have it built it to not be forward, otherwise it makes them look like a whore and they know/realize this.

Lunch is a casual meet up, but with whats preached here its a perfect opportunity otherwise :roll:

I think for some, depending on whos around, putting the game on when bystanders are around is like a instant damper to your game(especially if its her and her friends around). Ive been in that situation before and it totally disarmed me until i realized there's a smoother way to come in on. Although thats on the spot changing, you gotta be nimble to alternate back and forth if you have "onlookers" paying attention to your every move.
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