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| Author: | sharp101 [ Fri Mar 27, 2009 9:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | stuck in mid game |
been gaming a HB10 went well threw a few negs, jokes, etc. sometimes shes all mine other times i think im the last thing on her mind its so weird. before anything else i need to know some solid IOI's and number closes. the fact is maybe i went from friend to good friend but i want to go from good friend to boyfriend 
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| Author: | THFuran [ Fri Mar 27, 2009 10:40 pm ] |
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There can be some weird ground if you have fallen into the "friend zone", it makes judging IOIs a whole lot harder in my opinion. Some girls can be naturally outgoing and flirtaceous and this can compound the problem. The good thing for you though is that a number close does not need to rest on the positive feedback of IOIs. Often it is more than enough if you just ask if she would like to grab a drink or something. It would be easier to help if you would post where and when you are most often seeing this girl so I can best answer how to adjust the mid game. However some all around things are that when you are in large groups and she is concentrating on others, make yourself known, take control of the group and give direction, almost shut her out. If you take control and pretty much ignore her it will help create that attraction and make her realize your not just there and she is NOT the only thing you care about. Also it serves as a great DHV. You want to make it look like she is the last thing on your mind and bring her to you. There are lots of good scripted number closes on the site but I do not have any links handy, sorry. So if you could drop some more info on the situation you are most often in (night/day/work/class/club/bar...) I could be of more assistance. |
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| Author: | Agent Whore 32 [ Fri Mar 27, 2009 11:09 pm ] |
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pick up a girl infront of her, use her as a pivot, or as FTC, and then when she asks you did you pick her up you say yeh but i decided i dont care and throw the number out |
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| Author: | sharp101 [ Sat Mar 28, 2009 3:36 pm ] |
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thnx guys and transthfuran lemme give u some background info: see her @ skool usually a few minutes before skool, during class and some more -time after skool -we usually play the marriage game, etc. there was this one point she was so all over me i swear if we weren't indoors we wouldve made out lol, but like i said shes on and off its like shes on some weird menstrual cycle lol try basing ur advice on tht and if u need any more info tell me oh and how would u reply to her facebook wall post lol mhmmm yeah great minds think a like hehe once again thnx guys |
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| Author: | THFuran [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:05 am ] |
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From what you have said school is where you are around her most. This is great because it leaves you with great ways out and perfect opportunities to neg her in front of others and allows for great DHVs. I would say your best bet would be playing off of her, give her a bit of space, when she is all over you try to act like she is basically a bother, you have other more pressing things, aknowledge other female friends around her more so than her. Make it look almost like she is the least interesting thing around and talk to other girls but then drop a neg on her to keep her semi-included. Then later at a time of your choosing go up and start flirting a bit with her, do NOT overdo it however, the playfull stuff you mentioned would do fine, but then quickly drop a false time constraint (ie I have to get to an appointment, lets continue this later) and she will probably ask what your appointment is and you can respond, "i am applying for a job repairing used toothpicks" (something outrageous like that but be semi serious while saying it) and then add, "Oh I might need a good reference, you mind if I get your number?" At this point you can break the serious tone if you wish and smile and initiate the eye contact. Guage her reaction, she should most definetely give you her number and this should open quite a few more doors down the road. Also, its important to note that this should be done when your isolated with her, so approach her after school, but not obviously, make it appear like you ran into her on your way out to your "appointment". Sorry about the untimely response, it was a looong weekend, best of luck sharp. |
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| Author: | THFuran [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:10 am ] |
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And about the facebook post, I assume I am too late on this however, just remember this when online, body language is out the window and innuendo can often be overlooked or misunderstood. However, play it cool and dont seem to needy. About her post you could drop a neg and make a comment about how she does not have a great mind so its amazing she knew what you were thinking. I have to hit the books so if you have any more questions just let them fly. Later. |
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