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Author:  jROMAN [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 10:30 pm ]
Post subject:  OverKill Negged this girl..getting ignored now
HB9 from class. sweet nice girl. never goes clubbin. went to all girls school for HS and so i believe that she hasnt been exposed to many guys hitting on her
i used the waffle hair neg.
we'd be perfect for each other but not my type neg.
that guys perfect for you over there!(pointing at an obese guy)
and i think i used one more but i forgot

so a total of 3-4 harsh negs

now she just completely ignores me in class..

she used to initiate conversation with me all the time now i have to say something to her..

mind you i was getting great rapport and IOIs before i did all the negs..
Author:  roady [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 11:26 pm ]
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lol thats funny as shit man. you obviously realized you negged too much. I dont remember who said it but i read somewhere that through an hour long conversation with a girl there should be one neg. if she was already talking to you before than i dont think any negs were needed because they are used to lower the girls value and place yours higher but if she was already giving iois to ya i dont think they were needed.
ANYWAYS now you have to repair the situation because she probably thinks your a huuuuuge dick. dont confuse that with HAVING a huge dick. i would probably start light conversations and complement her on things, but not her looks. and dont neg her again thats not needed. good luck pal.
Author:  manman [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:28 am ]
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What the fuck are you doing? a "neg" is a tool used by the pick up community in an attempt to bring a snobby girl and cut her confidence down till she is at your level. And thats ONLY if you already feel you are lower than her. This girl obviously likes you, but you are so blinded by using canned material, your not being a MAN. Fuck the Mystery bullshit, that won't get you laid. Women are attracted to men for their personality, attitude,confidence in ones self, the way they display it body language. Negging a rare girl like that is surely killing your chances at romance. Switch it up man. She doesn't even know if you like her, or are just acting weird.
Author:  KooLsidez [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 7:13 am ]
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i think roady and manman hit it on the head. She might think you're kind of a dick and kinda weird, but most improtantly- she probably thinks you don't like her.

If she was initiating conversations with you and gave you IOI's already, negs are not necessary at all. A neg is used to get to a point where you would be getting IOI's and she's more interested in you than you in her.....but that problem was solved for you already.

This is just an example of feeling out the situation and flowing with it. Not every set is going to be a textbook case.
Author:  Game L-Over [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:26 am ]
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just a side note.

the pointing at an obese guy as her perfect man is not very good. its more of a joke. and shows that u r harsh on peoples looks

if u pointed at an average man n said "that guys perfect" it shows u might acutally care who she dates n seem as tho u r just helping her out, a real neg, not a joke nor insult
Author:  Captn [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:48 pm ]
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Okay, future reference, you use NEGS to bring down a bitch shield, NEVER for anything else. You TEASE to build up Rapport, and there is a BIG difference between the two. Teasing, whatever it is, is cute, and unique, making them see that you notice little things. Negs, makes them doubt you are interested, teases, do the exact opposite.
Author:  -Achilles [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 3:25 am ]
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I agree with every comment here. The neg is used before the attraction towards you, and as you said so you were getting a lot of attention and IOIs from her, so there was no need to neg. maybe only one but four is definetly too much there. and I agree too with roady with the solution.

I'm in a similar situation now so as soon I have some field tested antidote I¡ll let you know uh?

good luck there man!
Author:  Jigrimasu [ Fri Apr 03, 2009 1:23 am ]
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AHAHAHAHAHAHAAAaa. Damn, son, you roasted that bitch!
Author:  jROMAN [ Wed Apr 08, 2009 4:50 am ]
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thanks guys..

lol at how dumb i feel..but really you guys helped alot..

i think i might've saved the set also!! :D

she texts me about class then i told her that i needed to tell her something and i just called her and we had a cool 20 min convo..

its a start..

i need to get some compliments in and show her i like her..
Author:  jROMAN [ Wed Apr 08, 2009 4:52 am ]
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p.s. she initiated conversation with me in class today with an inside joke that we have in front of the whole class!!

she embarrassed me
Author:  Captn [ Wed Apr 08, 2009 3:26 pm ]
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Excellent dude she is trying to disqualify you, playing the cat and mouse game. She likes you dude. . . go for it.
Author:  jROMAN [ Fri Apr 10, 2009 8:03 am ]
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stuck again..

i thought i saved the set..but the 2nd day i saw her it was so-so..

we talked in class and i was the damn AMOG of the class..with like 5 HB's all around me talking to me only..

but the HB9 i've been having trouble with keeps talking about this EPIC FOREVER 21 that just opened..

when class ended( we got let out late) she just bolts out of the class room which i think was to avoid me..maybe she really had to be somehwere..she has 2 jobs

but later i texted her

Me: so is there really gonna be a huge grand opening for the forever 21
HB9: YES! i bet youre excited!!
Me: im not gay..my friend told me theres actually a guy section there
HB9: yup there is
Me: is there anything else youre gonna do besides that?
HB9: work
Me: all night?

End convo..she never answers after

depressing
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