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Author:  cursive [ Tue Feb 24, 2009 10:24 am ]
Post subject:  need advice
alright im 17, live in australia. theres this new chick at our school. shes good. about an 8 or a 9. she seems to play hard-to-get. all the guys try to get her yet i seem to be the only one who shes keen on....i dont have trouble having conversation with her, let alone any girls, i seem to be goodlooking and get alot of 9s and 10s but this one seems harder. can anyone give me some openers or something unique to throw at her midway in a convo before i fuck shit up.

cheers, cursive
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:46 pm ]
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Something UNIQUE to throw at her midway in convo...

While she is talking to you telling you a story kind of... just throw out,
"I need to get a shirt today. Come with me to the mall."

"Do you like Chinese (or whatever) food?"
NEXT: "Good. I am wanting some too, let's go after school."

It is always best to do something with a girl for the first time, RIGHT NOW..
Author:  cursive [ Sat Feb 28, 2009 11:35 pm ]
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its funny, actually i got ymself round to her house last night (rich as fuck) i ended up using "lets get chinese" off the top of my head. haah pretty funny. it worked we went got chinese and went back to her house. we sat down and watched a movie, we were getting cuddly and someone kept calling me on my mobile and hanging up. the girl i was with answered it and the girl on the other line started abusing her asking for me. she hung up, they called again and started abusing me about beng a 'PLAYER' the phone was on loudspeaker so the girl i was with could hear everythin. the person on the phone started naming previous girls ive been seeing. i have no idea who the girl was and then the girl i was with seemed blank and just offered to take me home. on the way home she was asking me questions about why im a player. she seemed to be having second thoughts about me.

so. i never ended up even kissing her because of this fucked up phone call and now i think she has the impression of me being a player...

what can i do to try and convince her im not, but not in an obvious way. i jsut need a strong way to get her back over on my side.

cheers
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 2:59 am ]
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First of all, congrats on actually getting somewhere with her... on the other
hand, I would put my phone on VIBRATE next time... ;-)
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the girl i was with answered it and the girl on the other line started abusing her asking for me. she hung up, they called again and started abusing me about beng a 'PLAYER' the phone was on loudspeaker so the girl i was with could hear everythin.
No speakerphone, next time, just excuse yourself so you can handle this
jealous freak on the phone, or you can just turn your phone off next time.
There is nothing funny about another girl calling you when you are trying
to get your game on with a hottie...
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the person on the phone started naming previous girls ive been seeing.
I would have covered this by telling your current girl that you have dated
a few girls in the past, you have just not been able to find the one that you
have chemistry with...
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then the girl i was with seemed blank and just offered to take me home. on the way home she was asking me questions about why im a player. she seemed to be having second thoughts about me.
Her asking why you are a player was a test to see if you really are a player,
girls will do this in a non-chalant way in order to get your guard down so
that you will open up to them, they might say shit like, "it's ok if you are,
I'm not worried about it, we can work it out..." blah blah blah...

Next time, just tell her that you are not a player... and leave it at that.
If you try to explain it in more detail, then the more you talk, the more she
hears... I AM A PLAYER, I AM TRYING TO COVER IT UP BY TALKING MY
HEAD OFF TO YOU SO YOU WILL GET TIRED OF ME TALKING BLAH BLAH...

Not true. The more you talk, the more you seem guilty.
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and now i think she has the impression of me being a player...
Just go back up to her in class and tell her, "hahaha, you know who that
girl was on the phone??? It was my cousins ex girlfriend, she thought that
my number was his new number... she wanted me to tell you that she is
so sorry for what she said and how she acted to you.. she would like to take
you and me out for dinner tomorrow night..."

Just have another friend (girl) call you and put it on speakerphone and
hour before this "dinner" and have this friend say, "I have to cancel, my
dad is coming into town tonight... rain check???"

And boom... you are out with the girl again, and now you can TURN YOUR
PHONE OFF instead of pressing the END BUTTON press and hold the POWER BUTTON...
Author:  cursive [ Mon Mar 02, 2009 4:52 am ]
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thanks for the detailed advice LEPRACHAUN.
Quote:
Just go back up to her in class and tell her, "hahaha, you know who that
girl was on the phone??? It was my cousins ex girlfriend, she thought that
my number was his new number... she wanted me to tell you that she is
so sorry for what she said and how she acted to you.. she would like to take
you and me out for dinner tomorrow night..
i dont know if i could pull off the 'cousins ex girlfriend thing' because weve been trying to suss out who it is at school and shes been trying to uss it out with some other girls aswell. but it doesnt matter anyway because ive got a day 2 with her.

but if you wouldnt mind, could you reply to my post on 'closings and day 2s' and help me out with that.

cheers
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